A girl will date a married man and he will lie to her saying that he is going to divorce his wife to be with you. When he doesn't leave her, you get mad, and say things like "all men are pigs". why? You went to him, and you chose to stay. Your behavior was just as bad as his, and you degraded yourself in the first place by getting involved. Why is the guy supposed to be the vilian in this affair? I agree that his behavior may have swayed you to think he was a nice guy, although he isn't, but as soon as you found out about the wife and possible children why didn't you pull the plug. You should have known that to him you were only an unpaid prostitute, and you let him treat you like that. WHY?
2006-06-22 12:02:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
People please read the entire question/statement. You all seem to be missing the point. I have noted that in a situation like this, that both people are wrong, but there usually is one person who is held primarily at fault by everyone. Read the question and think before you answer please. This is a very legitimate issue. I have never done anything like this, and do not speak from a personal life experience. Also please do not attack me or my daughter. READ THE QUESTION!!!!
2006-06-22 15:57:36 · update #1
i've never dated married men... they would be a complete waste of time.
men and women have been generalizing and disrespecting each other for the longest. not all men are assholes, and not all women are whores. women who date married men, knowing they are married, are disgusting and ARE whores. you need to find your own man... there are hundreds of other men out there. women who dont know the men they are dating are married... thats another story. you need to be smarter, because as far as i've heard there are always signs... right in front of your face.
men who do this to their wives are evil and disgusting... you're pretty much saying that the woman you chose for the rest of your life is not woman enough to satisfy you and keep you by her side.
if there is one thing i demand from a man, its honesty. tell me you dont want to be with me, and be on your way. dont lie and cheat. nobody is forcing you to be with me. and that goes for everyone else in the world. grow some balls and tell people when its over. be honest.
what goes around comes around.
2006-06-22 12:05:23 · answer #1 · answered by LiLiTh 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I dont have a clue why Girls are wanting to date married men, especially the ones with children! Thats soooo wrong. They're stupid...I mean if they cheat on their wifes dont they ever think of maybe he'll cheat on her too?! get some common sense & your own man!
2006-06-22 12:16:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
there's two side to every coin .
There are females who date married men because
Girls just want to have fun .
Most cheaters treat their lovers better than the wife .
And neither one is looking for a committed relationship . it may be a no win relationship but , the fleeting moments of fantasy for some is good enough .
But for those who hope for something more they are just as you described .
2006-06-22 12:26:36 · answer #3 · answered by cuzn deb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Prudes Insecure women Women who blame American Black men for all there self hating problems...i.e. the user Forever Young who just blocked me. Emotionally co-dependent: There needs to be an emotional connection, but she needs to maintain her independence...it's a thin line to walk sometimes. I'm always happy with a woman who can love herself and respect others for their beliefs regardless of what she believes herself. A woman wise enough to curb my little chauvinistic streak without being domineering always has the upper hand over me.
2016-03-27 01:24:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should just prepare yourself for the daughter going off and doing what shhheee wants, like living with the mother...even if she is a ho ho...that poor kid has to live with the fact her mama is a ho ho...how sad is that..the jokes even if you don't tell people...your mama is a ho ....they think in a small minded world of right in front of you...they can fix the other person...interest=fixing...it's like giving a drug addict a needle...chicks are lame and cheating hubbies are too...human nature...should be identified ..listed..and passed out as a necessary childhood document...upgraded on auto every 7yrs...sorry dude, i wish there were more evolved human brains to go oohhh, that's what this means...and change it...but, that may never happen....keep the chuggin along...good luck...give your kid a hug...and don't change your perspective...or person!
2006-06-22 17:41:20 · answer #5 · answered by Sweety 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never done that but I agree. Its the same getting mad at a girl who fooled around with your bf instead of getting mad at your bf and staying with him. The girl may have not known that your bf was in a relationship. The only way I would be pissed if the girl knew he had a girlfriend and went with him anyways...But I think girls sometimes just think with their emotions and not with their brains. Which is probably why we all make terrible mistakes. Homewreckers are the worst.
2006-06-22 12:07:46 · answer #6 · answered by coco_k22 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Actually, the story starts way before that....
What kind of GIRL consents to date a married man? Therefore, what we actually see is simply, "She gets exactly what that kind of girl deserves".
2006-06-22 12:06:35 · answer #7 · answered by Timothy W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
would you like this list alphabetically or just off the top of my head......
Reasons to date a married man
first and foremost if he's not worried about HIS wife and children why the h*ll should I?
I don't have to cook for the dumb a$$
I don't have to clean up after the lazy ba$tard
I'm not the one scrubbing the skid marks and p*cker tracks out of his underwear (doing his laundry)
I only have to put up with his crap for brief periods of time
I love the free vacations (he tells his wife they are business trips and while she's sitting at home we're off on a cruise to the Bahamas)
I'm not the one ruining my figure and getting fat popping out his devil spawn nor am I stuck wiping snotty noses or poopy diapers
He's paying for my rent on an upscale condo in a very prestigious neighbourhood
I have all the convenience of a good lay when I need it without having to put up with the rest of the bullsh*t that comes along with having a man in your house full time
My question to you is WHY NOT date a married man?
2006-06-22 12:15:36 · answer #8 · answered by Jennifer B 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Many women will date married men bc they know the guys were open to marruage.
2006-06-22 12:07:06 · answer #9 · answered by libbyocto14 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YOU KNOW I DON'T UNDERSTNAD WHY WOMEN LIKE TO DATE MARRIED MEN. BUT THEY MUST KNOW THAT IS ADULTERY AND GOD DON'T LIKE THAT. THEY MUST ALSO KNOW ONE DAY THEY JUST MIGHT GET MARRIED AND THEN FIND OUT A WOMAN IS MESSING WITH THEIR HUSBAND AND IT IS GOING TO COME BACK TO THEM YES I DID THAT TO SOME ONE SO IT MUST BE TRUE WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND AND IN OTHER WORDS AS THE BIBLE SAY YOU REAP WHAT YOU SOW.........
2006-06-22 12:12:07 · answer #10 · answered by Prophetess Teresa w 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋