there is this guy that i like and he is always going out with these little short skinny girls that are really mean to me. I am a little over weight a i am really nice to him and he is nice to me. they dont even treat him right. they always break up with him as well. anyway doesnt it matter whats on the inside not out. I mean I really feel that he sort of likes me. I bet if i lose weight he will like me.
2006-06-22 11:34:20 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
these girls are always giving me a hard time about my weight. there are 3 of these skinnys that are always acting like preps.
2006-06-22 11:49:22 · update #1
Not all skinny people are mean. And as for you, you should be proud of who you are. It doesn't matter how much you weigh. its on the inside that counts. Those skinny girls probley are just insicure about them selves. I weigh 99 pounds and just because im skinny doesn't mean my body is perfect. I have tiny boobs and really skinny legs and it does bother me time to time. But im okay with who i am. And you should be too!!!! And if hes not interested in you cuz your a little bigger then the other girls, then screw him!! You need to find a man that will treat you right and love you for who you are! And what ever you do, dont loose weight for him. If your gonna loose weight, DO IT FOR YOUR SELF. thats the only person that you should ever do it for. Good luck hunni. If you need anything elce, feel free to email me.
2006-06-22 15:15:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 8⤊ 2⤋
Well honey. The normalcy of the world is to be skinny but if You are not then you are a diamond in the rough girl! True Asian women are skinny but if your not then let the haters HATE! You are the NEW and out with the old. Thick is In ! Take another look at Hollywood girl. The actressess get skinny to make movies but afterwards to be seen in public, thick is what is rich! White girls never had any booty but NOW there everywhere!
2016-05-20 12:14:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys tend to go for the little skinny girls because they are shallow. Especially guys in middle school and high school. They go for them because they are sexy, not because they want a meaningful relationship. Eventually, most of these guys will grow up and realize how empty their pursuits were. Then, they will see the true beauty of friends like you. Unfortunately, sometimes, it takes a long time for them to realize. Hang in there. I've liked plenty of girls who were far from skinny, I guarantee farther than you are. Chances are there are some really great guys that like you that you don't even know about.
2006-06-22 12:21:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys like that are just selfish and ignorant. Society seems to be raised on the Barbie Doll type. Real thin, nice hair and boobs....etc. The sad thing is that 98% of those girls are stuck-up, lying, deceitful little tramps. It's his own fault that he gets broken up with and used...basically he is an idiot. Why dont you make the move and just ask him to go grab some coffee or something simple like that? Whats the worst we can say?...no?
2006-06-22 11:42:03 · answer #4 · answered by alilfishy06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy sounds like a real jerk. If I were you I wouldn't waste my time on him. There is some guy out there that will like you for you. Don't EVER change who you are for anyone else. If you change your self for someone else then you will lose a sense of who you really are in the process. So, if you really do want to lose weight do it for you and then when he tries to come crawling kick his *** to the curb . That will teach him.
2006-06-22 11:44:59 · answer #5 · answered by Lin_Z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never change yourself for anyone else. That is exactly what happens at my school. Talk to the guy. Ask him if he likes you. never, never, try to be better for someone else. Everyone is unique in their own way. And you're right, People should matter whats on the inside, not out.
2006-06-22 13:57:03 · answer #6 · answered by la. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are only like that in high school, unless they're majorly immature in which case you wouldn't want them anyway, but if you just give him little hints that you like him, and let him get to know you a little he'll definitely want you and he'll realize that looks aren't really important at all.
2006-06-22 11:45:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun, listen you are probably wayyyy to good for him anyways! He's the one missing out, NOT YOU! The Anorexic look is sooo out. I mean I dont really understand why guys prefer girls that look like their 10 years old, kinda creepy! ahh he's a loser girl!
2006-06-22 11:40:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, you dont have to be skinny to get a guy. Maybe you are looking at the wrong guy.
As the saying go's.....there's many more fish in the sea !
2006-06-22 11:42:01 · answer #9 · answered by StarGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. That guy sounds like an insecure jerk. He probably dates these girls because he thinks he's supposed to.
Actually, there are a lot of guys who don't like to date twigs.
If you have to change yourself for someone like that, they probably aren't the right person for you anyway and it's not worth it.
2006-06-22 11:36:42 · answer #10 · answered by holliskate 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋