How many times should one be dumped in the first two weeks of meeting someone - before giving up? ................
2006-06-22 11:28:56 · 40 answers · asked by London Lady 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
As often as you've got the stomach for.
Then take a breather. Then go back for more.
Someday you'll think "ah!" and come up with a way to change the strategy. Or you'll strike it lucky. When good comes along, always be prepared to walk away from crap even if it's hanging around a little longer than 2 weeks.
But in the meantime, make sure you get on well with yourself. You have the luxury of no distractions - you can't con yourself into comfort by hiding yourself behind a relationship. Make sure you like being you first and foremost. Hope you do.
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2006-06-22 11:30:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Am I the only person who interpretted the question as 'being dumped in the first two weeks of different relationships'?
If someone dumps you once in the first two weeks of a given relationship, it's over. Move on.
If lots of people are dumping you in the first two weeks of your relationships with them, keep at it.
You might want to think about where things are going wrong though. Accommodating other people and modifying your behaviour in respect of their needs is different to pretending to be something you're not - provided you get the balance right.
2006-06-22 11:45:23 · answer #9 · answered by Wax Crayon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't look like a kid; you really have to ask this one?
Once is quite enough thank you!
If he wants out before anything even starts (and nothing has in that short a time), he isn't worth the paper to put your phone number on, let alone your time.
Run, don't walk, very far from this one!
BTW..invest in your heart - great book "He's Just not that Into You." Learning how to spot those just stringing you along or who are really damaged and breaking your own patterns of putting up with such crap is a necessity if you ever want a good relationship.
2006-06-22 11:32:36 · answer #10 · answered by Lori A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋