People are strange and getting to know someone is even stranger. Ladies this one is for you...At what point in your life were you just sick and tired of the same old search for the right guy? How old were you when you realized that beauty exist in the soul and not only upon your "visual arousement"? (This question is for married or involved women only)---Please don't answer "Guys do the same thing" My research is strictly for the women. Oh, please I need you age, and race. Thanks
2006-06-22 10:43:07 · 8 answers · asked by Bastard 1971 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am 30... and white. Well, I still think physical attraction is extremely important. It wasn't until recently that I realized something when I was looking at old photos, and remembering my ex-husband. When the way you see someone on the inside... changes the way you see them on the outside... that's when you know your in love.I used to think my first husband was attractive even though my friends disagreed and said I could do way better... they said he was old,(26)fat and ugly... I saw him from the inside without even realizing it, I knew he was heavy but I thought he was adorable. I was 18! After he became abusive from the drinking, I left him and hadnt seen him for a long time... when I looked at the photos I realized he really wasnt attractive at all, it was the way I saw him when he was good to me. So I guess it depends on the woman.
2006-06-22 11:11:50 · answer #1 · answered by Brandy A 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I was sick and tired of it when i was about 27 years of age. I learned this starting then and now that I am 37 i feel that it is all about what and who the guy is and not the outward appearance only! I am caucasian and happily married now for going on 7 years. I am so glad i learned this when i did and it has made a huge difference in my life and in my marriage!
2006-06-22 18:54:12 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was about 21. When I got to know myself inside and became confident the men flocked to me. All beauty is within. Most of the time what you see on the outside is nothing what that person is really like. When I did not pay attention to the looks and started meeting people for friendship I found love really fast.
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2006-06-22 17:52:25 · answer #3 · answered by 4X4 Woman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never been the type of person that dated for looks. People would always tell me I could do better as far as my bf's looks went. I tried to date guys that treated me nicely. I have yet to find a man that has a beautiful soul.
2006-06-22 17:47:51 · answer #4 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I mainly look at heart/ personality i have never gone off of just looks. age24 race-mohican indian/white(50/50). But to be honest i have found hardly anyone with a good heart and personality.
2006-06-22 18:14:59 · answer #5 · answered by pancake_tits_01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hum...........That has only been a few years ago. I had to do a lot of growing up,to realize that lookes didn't matter as much as who the person really was on the inside.Its really sad to say but i guess i was around 24.
2006-06-22 17:56:03 · answer #6 · answered by TinkerBell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Somewhere out there, there's someone for me and you. Dont give up. Good Luck Sir
2006-06-22 18:37:55 · answer #7 · answered by Tate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never been like that.
2006-06-22 17:48:58 · answer #8 · answered by twogingerkisses 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋