** said that "my life is more important than us, it sucks but its the way life work".
My boyfriend did this to me. He wants to move 3 states away for a job. The way he had always talked to me was that he loved me so much and that we have the best solid relationship anyone could ever have.
Don't you think if some says your their soul mate that they'd take you a bit more seriously? Or what?
2006-06-22 10:30:24 · 8 answers · asked by NUTS4DUNCAN 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Maybe he feels the same way, that you're not taking him seriously. Maybe he's trying to plan for your future together and that involves a better job, even if it's a few states away.
He might've been doing something nice for your friend, because they're YOUR friend.
You seriously need to talk about this with him.
2006-06-22 10:34:39 · answer #1 · answered by mikah_smiles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably doesn';t even realize what he is talking about... Maybe you could move with him... Think about it, you could look for a new job and you two could start your life together in a different area.
See if that works. If you two love each other it will all work out honey don't worry talk to him sweetie.
2006-06-22 17:37:10 · answer #2 · answered by lovebug1234 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, there is nothing you can do except let him move 3 states away. That is what is important to him right now. If he is your soulmate then he will either come back for you or ask you to go with him.
2006-06-22 17:36:08 · answer #3 · answered by SAChicky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys dont care. plain and simple. they will tell you one thing and do another. they care for no one, i repeat no one but themselves. it will never change. just bc they say they care or love you does NOT mean its true and sincere. let him go if he wants. f it, right? if he wants you, hell stay or take you w if he moves. a career should most times b first bc its a ways of living. but id jap out on him too.
2006-06-22 17:34:06 · answer #4 · answered by Kasey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a lot of the time love is blind. but you have to step back and realize that you can love someone wherever they/you are. i say go with him. find a job with him.
2006-06-22 17:34:30 · answer #5 · answered by jonahma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's over, obviously, time to move on and forget the insensitive jerk.
2006-06-22 17:33:07 · answer #6 · answered by JC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well happens sometime to some people it is important
2006-06-22 17:32:56 · answer #7 · answered by ill tell u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him, before he dumps you.
2006-06-22 17:34:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋