what do guys look for in girls. I mean I've had boyfriends but they never seem interested in ME.?

Question

I mean it seems like they dont care about persanality anymore all they care about is popularityy and looks and I can't stand it. So please help me!

Answer 1

So you like to hang around with Shallow Al or Hal or whatever the name of the nut was in the movie.

With most males in our coupling search, hormones rule. Is she attractive? Go for her. After some point of satisfaction we start thinking with the head atop our shoulders instead. Then other factors are considered (personality, feelings, dreams, etc.). For a lot of guys with a lot physical desire driving them to the attraction, the issue is a willing body. Getting to know the woman inside the body is somewhat an acquired taste and not all guys like the flavor.

I heard a shrink once say, "To a man the price of sex is intimacy, and to a woman the price of intimacy is sex." Some women bargain so cheaply that the guy never has to pay his part of the bargain.

Answer 2

Its obvious you have some issues with your appearance as youve posted pics which ill admit i looked at but I wont give my opinion because you have to learn to live with and accept yourself regardless.. That fact that the guys you are choosing end up being tools has got nothing to do with appearance.. its just bad luck.. They were interested in you in the first place wernt they ? yes.. A lot of people are in the same situation (i.e 20+ and never had a mate) so dont get down about that.. your time will come... This I am very sure of ;)

Answer 3

Personality does still count as number one, you're not looking in the right area. Good guys with honesty and morals do exist they are few and far between but they are out there. It's not what the guy wants, don't conform to there standards be yourself. Everything is done in god's time not our time. When it's done in our timing we lose.

Answer 4

That's because a lot of guys don't mature until much much later in life. unfortunately, for women, some don't mature at all. The ones who care about popularity and looks more than your personality is not for you. Just be yourself and don't rush it. The right guy will see your personality.

Answer 5

Listen Hailey, the hard part of life is finding the people that stray from image. People don't believe that us descent folks exist because of media and the general public. Meet the unexpected people out ther because they are the truely good people. Find those who don't travel in packs, run with the crowd and understand their true feelings. This crap takes time, trust me, I am still waiting myself.

Answer 6

it complicated... men want a buddy but not to be too buddy-buddy we basically look for a best friend that is always attractive and has a good personality. but you gotta excite us all the time (or we get bored) and make us want to do stuff, cuz we wont do it just because.

Answer 7

Only weak men are concerned with status and their place in the pecking order. All the good men, don't care. They know they are on top.

Answer 8

maybe becuz your going for the wrong man. Maybe your looking at thier looks also. if you wan them to liek your for your personality then maybe you should like them for thiers. and stop trying to find a man who has a abs and muscles and go for a commen nice guy. i mean if thats what you want. but don't complain becuz if you want that you can get it .

Answer 9

face butt boobs nd nice attitude bu tpersonality is also important cuz if a grl chills wid geeks dan guys wud b emberessed 2 chill wid her cuz ppl wud make fun of him so u shud hang out wid ppl hu r respected or cool nd those guys where jus usin u

Answer 10

it depends on what kind of guy your looking for. some want sex some want a hang out buddy and others just want some one to do there laundry Ask your self what do you want in a man