what should i do when i love some1 so much but feel like moving on????? HELP!!!!!1?

Question

i betrayed her 1c... i actually, STUPIDLY told her the truth, she left..... now, after 6 months of waiting for her cause she keeps telling me to n i feel like i should move on cause the pain n sorrow n --hell-- everything is getting unbeaable..... I NEED HELP!!!!!!!!!....... B4 I KILL MYSELF!!!!!

Answer 1

First off,there is nothing in this world or no body worth your own life! Yes,you might have to start thinking about moving on now.It took a big man to stand up for what he did,and that is what you did,for that, you should be proud,but for cheating in the first place,was wrong.You said you loved her more than anything,but then you cheated.It might be rough being alone,but you need to learn how to cope in life without having to have a mate to rely on,you need to find your strengths and be a more positive person about yourself.You don't need her,even though you were the cause of her leaving you.Take heed to this as a lesson and the next time don't cheat,it's not worth it,as you are finding this out now.You really need to focus on yourself right now,if you could do that,guess what you wouldn't feel as stressed and you wouldn't be talking about killing yourself.I hope you take my advice along with others on here as well.I wish you nothing but the Best and you take care,Good Luck!

Answer 2

Nothing in this life is ever worth taking your life, you should move on, Its hard at first but you will feel better, When we look back we often ask what we ever seen in someone because we get infatuated with the general idea of that person instead of the relationship we actually have with them.

Answer 3

if u betrayed her once and is willing to forgiv u then u have to forgive urself.. just dont make the same mistake twice.. do you truly love her? if you do makeup for ur betrayl and love her unconditionally and only her...everyone is entitiled to a mistake.. u learned from it and now u know the grass isnt always greener on the other side....just relax and take ur relationship day by day.............

Answer 4

i know how you feel the same thing just happened to me except with my b/f and i'm going crazy i miss him so much and i want to move on but don't know how. It's like every where i go every thing i do i think of him and i can't get him out of my mind and it hurts so bad . but don't worry it'll get better soon!

Answer 5

she needs time to heal...it sounds like she is asking for that from you and if you really love her you will wait......the saying "if you love them you will set them free and if it's meant to be they will return" time heals many wounds...