2006-06-22 10:01:45 · 21 answers · asked by Eric Inri 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You're effeminate? You dress impeccably? You take good care of your looks? You style your hair, just so? They're jealous of your good looks? They're confusing you with someone else? They know you use beauty products? They saw you going in full drag to a Rock Horror Show and assumed, as much? You sang in the school queer (sorry CHOIR)? Your voice hasn't broken? You wave your arms about in a frenzy when you speak? You were caught looking at another's tackle in the communal showers/in the changing rooms/while standing at the urinals in the mens' room? You can't play sports? You don't have a girlfriend?
Shall I go on? I don't know which of these, if any is true. What you have to do is identify what you are: straightest straight, gayest gay or (most likely) somewhere in between. Once you've done that, and you're happy in yourself, don't give a damn about what others say or think about you.
Chin up now
2006-06-22 10:48:49 · answer #1 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Need more info, darlin'. If you are straight and being mistaken for a gay boy bothers you, the only thing you can do is look more stereotypically straight or start hanging off of girls. Otherwise, don't worry about idiots who tell you stupid crap.
2006-06-22 17:07:10 · answer #2 · answered by oldwhatshername 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ONLY YOU CAN ANSWER THIS QUESTION.
ARE YOU GIVING THEM A REASON WHY THEY SHOULD THINK LIKE THAT? OR BELIEVE YOU'RE GAY?
IF YOU'RE ATTRACTED TO MEN OR WOMEN OF THE SAME SEX, THEN THERE'S SOMETHING WRONG.
I'D ADVISE YOU TO START PRAYING & ASKING GOD TO HELP YOU WITH YOUR SITUATION. REMEMBER, GOD DOESN'T APPROVE OF THAT TYPE OF LIFESTYLE & THE PERSON WON'T BE ABLE TO ENTER INTO HEAVEN LIVING LIKE THAT.
UNLESS THE PERSON(S) REPENTS-TO TURN AWAY FROM THAT TYPE OF SIN(S) & ASKS GOD FOR FORGIVENESS B/4 DIEING.
BUT NO ONE KNOWS WHEN IT'S GOING TO BE OUT TIME TO DIE. ONLY GOD KNOWS THE TIMING.
2006-06-22 17:05:36 · answer #3 · answered by lu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you are. Maybe it is because you act flamboyant and most people relate that to homosexual behavior-although not true. If it really bothers you maybe you should try acting differently if you want to give up being who you are.
2006-06-22 17:04:25 · answer #4 · answered by Nrassm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you gay? if you are who cares. if somebody is saying that you are gay they might just be an *** hole just forget about them. do what you want, live how you want just don't tell me about it.
2006-06-22 17:04:25 · answer #5 · answered by kevman0713 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who are they?and on what basis do "they" say you are gay?
2006-06-22 17:05:44 · answer #6 · answered by Sherry Baby ( Ethan's Mama ) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you care? Why desire the respect and adoration of someone who causes you stress?
2006-06-22 18:59:03 · answer #7 · answered by Swordfish 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about what they say. if you let them get into your head your just going to become upset. if you know your not forget them. and if you are forget them still. who cares about them. your going to be fine. most likely they just want to see your reaction and they just want you to hurt, people are cruel. but if you don't let it get to you the better off you'll be i know it hurts but try to be strong dont listen to them.
2006-06-22 17:08:57 · answer #8 · answered by Mariah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not enough information given to answer that question.
2006-06-22 17:05:02 · answer #9 · answered by karen wonderful 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because your a boy and you sit down to pee.
2006-06-22 17:05:00 · answer #10 · answered by devilymom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋