why do i always feel like a loser?

Question

i feel depressed alot, and sometimes i feel like i might as well die. i feel fat stupid and no one wants to be my friend.

whats going on?

please no mean answers or spam

Answer 1

I'll be your friend! Anytime! Don't worry, everyone feels like a loser at some point in their life. I used to, too. Then I kinda got over it and tried to be pestimistic at all times. I still feel like garbage sometimes, but hey, lifes good. Send me a message if you wanna talk and I'll give you my IM.

Answer 2

DON"T WORRY! I think everyone goes through it to some degree. Stay away from drugs- if you don't like yourself why should you feel dependent on drugs... real bad idea. I don't know anything about you, but chances are when people want to die they feel they have nothing to live for. So you need a reason to live...hmmm... **** the pretty little flowers. Find a passion and pursue it with everything you can have. It will take your mind off of your depression, and give you a reason to be proud of yourself. You might not find anything that you are good at, keep looking. Pick something you want to be good at and keep working on it. Get up and move around. Say," Al, or whatever my name is, I'm gonna get the **** up and do some pushups. Then I'm going to go to work. After I will play the guitar." Gotta keep busy or else you will dwell. Don't be idol! If you feel stupid, watch day time television, then you will feel intelligent. Or take some classes, read a book, search the internet for an interesting fact. Fat? Work out, eat right. It is that simple and you mptivation comes within. Maybe you are not ready to loose weight though you feel terrible, there is a difference between knowing something and accepting it. IOnce you accept these things you will be willing to change them. Friends? Tricky, I find many people live in a world void of reality and truth, so i find myself lonely too. Besides, take this seriously- when you feel bad about yourself it is obvious. No one wants to be friends with someone who is depressed because it makes them depressed. You have to like yourself before anyone will seriously like you. Hope that helps, keep your chin up! Life is hard, but what will make it worth the time for you? Or most likely- you are not fat, stupid, or unfriend-worthy... but if you do some things that have been suggested, then it will help you realize you are not as bad as you think.

Answer 3

You are depressed and may need to seek some professional help. Most help services are confidential and as long as you can get there it is possible that no one may find out that you are seeking help if you want to keep it on the low down. If not maybe you should tell someone close to you how you feel. That said, they are many people out there who would tell you that you are should just "suck it up". Don't listen to them just tyr another method to seek help. It is not healthy to be thinking the way you are. It is not that you are stupid or that no one wants to be your friend but that you are feeling that way. Sometimes with some therapy or some medication things can start feeling better pretty quickly. It may also be a long road to recovery but either way the choice is yours. This will be a battle in which will be quite a fight for you.

Answer 4

Life can be so hard and people can be so cruel.

I have felt many of the emotions you are experiencing now.

Sometimes depression is chemical, sometimes it is brought on by things that happen in life like a loss, disappointment or even a tragedy or a traumatic experience.

Looks have little to do with your mind soul and spirit, there are many people who are body beautiful but are shallow, conceited and vain,your insides reflect your outside,

All of us feel in adequate and at a loss for what to say or do, don't pick on yourself for being human.

I know what is was like in school to eat lunch my myself or stand alone at the bus stop because no one wanted to be my friend,

I also felt at times I wanted to die, but don't give up hope. I would encourage you to seek counsel from a trusted adult or a pastor or a deacon, and pray that God brings the right friends you need into your life.

What is going on is that you are going through a tough time right now and I am proud of you that you are talking about it and being honest with how you are feeling, you are very brave.

I am praying for you and God will give you the grace to see you through this difficult time in your life.

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Answer 5

well ive felt the same way in my life know it may not seem it but there is always a friend right around the corner also when you feel people are judging you that same person wakes up everyday wondering there own judgements too the only way you'll feel better is to begin to love yourself except yourself for who you are if you feel stupied which i do i just read more as long as you teaching yourself you cant feel bad and about the hole fat thing you must except you for you and once you do you want to do more and eat better and because you want to do these thing youll feel and look better dont but youself on a diet just live life and things will come your way the most imporatant thing you get out of all of this is LOVE YOURSELF i hope all the best lots of love

Answer 6

You need to pray cause GOD loves us all. I felt that way a lot of times in my life but you know when it came down to the day I was to die I awoke to an angel standing over me. Now I know I'm blessed and GOD has a plan for me as well as you. You just have to pray and hold on. It's never easy but wait on GOD he never lets you down. Let go and let GOD. He loves you and so do I and I've never met you but I know this much, you're a beautful person inside and out and without you GOD can't forfill his needs through you. So you keep your head up and let those feelings go cause the devil is a lier and only he can make you hate yourself for no reason at all. GOD makes no mistakes only blessings.
My mother told me she didn't want me at birth that left me feeling
just like you. Maybe I shouldn't be here and all that crap. Well baby I'm here and you are to. Hell with what others say. Except GOD and love yourself cause he does. Give him a chance you
won't regret it I promise. You write me if you need to talk and remember these words: YOU ARE SOMEBODY

Answer 7

Its the way you think. If you think negative, your world is horrible. If you think positive,you enjoy your life. People are more likely to want to hang out with people who are happy and are positive. I have been in your position and it will pass with some help. Even though i dont know you (atleast i dont think so) im here if you need a friend. [e-mail] I wont give out personal info but i can be a great friend. Im always on line.

Answer 8

You are not a loser. There is a lot of good people in the world and don't feel left out, because the people who doesn't want to be your friend are losers.

Answer 9

Its hard to tell when we don't know you, but it sounds like you need to talk to someone and soon. You do not need to die. Maybe you could volunteer somewhere , helping others would make you feel better about yourself, give it a try... try the humane society animals have a way of making you feel better.

Answer 10

dude, if you've been feeling like this more for more than a week, get help. you sound really depressed. there is nothing i can do or say that will make you feel better unless you get yourself the help you need to make the most of your life.

you can do it. get help. seek medical and mental health counseling. taking medication(s) is not the panacea to well-being. starting moving, too.

you are here. get use to it. and make the best of it. i truly believe no one is put on this earth to feel crappy and alone. take care, ok?