I want to tell him,but I'm too nervous too. I think he likes one of my friends. What should I do?
2006-06-22 09:54:51 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
go and just ask him............... don't worry about anything............ i m sure god will help u ........................GOOD LUCK DEAR
2006-07-05 13:28:22 · answer #1 · answered by *Neha.* 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Send him anonymous notes. Tell him that if he tells anybody that he's getting these notes, you will stop sending them. This takes the fear out of the whole thing.
Get one of those necklaces.. there's two and they both carry half of the pendant or whatever. (or use matching pins or whatever)Tell him that on Fridays you will wear it at the mall.. to come alone. Tell him he has to enter through whatever entrance. The only way he can find out who is sending the letters is if he finds you with the necklace in the mall.
Don't let him catch you the first two times.. then make it easier the third or fourth time.
In the notes.. just remind him that you're average looking or whatever you want to say.. so that he does see you, he will be pleasantly surprised. Don't let him get his hopes up too high - I'm sure you're great.. but you just don't want him to hope it's some other girl he has a huge crush on ... u just want him to meet you and go out a few times. Tell him as a reward for finding you, you'll do this or that for him.
Pick my answer and have some fun!
2006-07-05 15:55:31 · answer #2 · answered by game buddee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you like him then theres nothing wrong with telling him but if you are too nervous then you could talk to a friend that knows a lot about him and talks to him and see who he likes and weather or not he likes you or not but that is a lot of work and it would probably easier to just ask him yourself. i had to tell a guy that i loved while he was dating a friend of mine and so i know how hard it is but if you just take a deep breathe and get it over with then you will feel much better about it. plus this is the best and hardest step(as I've told a lot of people) so just go ahead, and the rest will come naturally.
2006-06-22 10:04:02 · answer #3 · answered by pink angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple answer? Just tell him and get it over with. You really don't know what's going on inside a person's head so you might as well chance it or nothing is going to happen. Trust me, its better to know whichever way you go.
2006-06-22 10:02:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
o.k. i know this sounds a bit sneaky for ur friends but start talking to ur friends more and find out. u need to find out if this guy likes them. and i don't think u should tell him because u might still have to wait awhile. start talking to this guy and maybe u can become friends. after that u can just express urself to him and he might like ur personality. someday he might tell u HIS feelings. take my advise i've experienced it.
2006-06-22 10:01:25 · answer #5 · answered by Ethereal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im a guy i got my gf in NOV. She is hot but i was nervous cuz i ddnt thnk she liked me but my friend was messing wit me and asked if she would go ot wit me and she said yes.
Anyway if u really like him ask cuz if my freind ddnt do wat he did i would be alone right now so ask him.
2006-06-22 10:04:50 · answer #6 · answered by Brass Monkey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well girl let me tell you im in the same situation so i think i can tell you what to do....you should start by getting to know him more and more, then get to hugging, then you talk more then one day ask him does he like you i think that's what you can do......im still clueless
2006-06-22 09:57:43 · answer #7 · answered by Jesseluver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey..my situation is same as u
but i'm a guy
i oso tink the way u tink jus tt i duno who she like
mayb can try gvin some hints
gd luck for u&me
2006-06-22 09:57:06 · answer #8 · answered by ivan_up_down 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be his friend first. Trust me, I once gave my crush a letter and my friend said that she saw one of my crush's friend ripped it and I was embarrassed. So, I think you should get to know him first then you can tell him.
Good luck
2006-06-22 09:57:55 · answer #9 · answered by DBSK LOVER! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the best thing to do is talk to him alone and see how he feels about you. I mean if he likes you, he likes you and if he doesn't, he doesn't. You can't change how someone feels.
2006-07-01 05:32:37 · answer #10 · answered by Melissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the thing u should do is talk to him and try and find out if he likes ur friend if he doesnt than u should ask him out.
2006-07-05 20:06:16 · answer #11 · answered by rayjr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋