is it love or infatuation?
2006-06-22 09:45:09 · 13 answers · asked by Kadianne M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
yes, a lil bit of both
2006-06-22 09:47:46 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi! yes i truly believe so. i have been with this guy for two.5 years now and he and i love each otherr still but we have been on the slippery slopes lately. We have even got to the point where our time is being spent elsewhere and as i have found out when you spend time with a person you build relationship even if its not sexual. Well to make a longer story shorter i will say this the person that i been spending all my time with has made me feel better than i ever felt with my current lover and we do love each other so i guess i can definitely say yes it is very possible to love two men at the same time. { maybe not equally the same ways but its love none the less } i hope this answers your question have a blessed day.
Peace:Gemini
2006-06-22 16:54:42 · answer #2 · answered by Alisha W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its that love vs. in love..lust and infatuation...its a combination that all seems to confuse one whats real and whats not...it can even make you wonder if either is really Mr. Right....since how can you not determine who is better than the other..good luck..that's why I focus on one partner at a time.
2006-06-22 16:52:07 · answer #3 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people can love lots of people. It's what boundaries you set for each love that matters. Obviously, your question suggests that you want to be intimate with two men. So can you? Yes, but if you are having trouble setting boundaries for yourself, then I might see a counselor and figure out why. There may be something about you and your past that fears abandonment so having someone else gives you a sense of relief should one fall through.
2006-06-22 16:57:33 · answer #4 · answered by Dr. Phil-lys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I truly don't think it is love,because when you really love someone,there wouldn't be two to choose from.You would only want to give yourself solely to him.Now you might have attractions for the two men and you might see different qualities in both that you like,but that doesn't stand in for the call of love.Maybe it might in time if you continue dating to see which one you really are wanting to be with.Best wishes to you and Good Luck!
2006-06-22 17:00:20 · answer #5 · answered by twjp1962 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think a women can love 2 men.
2006-06-22 16:48:06 · answer #6 · answered by 4X4 Woman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
certainly yes. why can a man love 2 or 3 women in the same time?
2006-06-22 16:52:23 · answer #7 · answered by ha b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a way.
There are different kinds of love.
There's the "I feel like I'm on fire and drowning at the same time" love.
There's the Warm Fuzzy Feeling love.
There's the He's my Best Male Friend Who Can Read my Mind love....
Maybe you just like all the attention! :)
2006-06-22 16:49:28 · answer #8 · answered by emilsignia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did for a while, now I have neither and Im happy as hellll, because it was to much trouble. San diego one weekend, san fransico another. Now im pleasently married 9 yrs
2006-06-22 16:49:10 · answer #9 · answered by Blackfirefly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it wouldn't be love with either of them. strictly lust or infatuation
2006-06-23 17:21:43 · answer #10 · answered by JerseyBleu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋