ok, i have a boyfriend that i've been with for 3 month's and every thing is going well and all, but the love of my life came back into the picture. i know i still have feeling for him but, i also have feelings for the guy im with now. please help me!!
2006-06-22 09:43:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Have them fight and whoever comes out on top gets to keep you. ;p
No, seriously, I'd say keep the current boyfriend because you're in a relationship with him NOW as opposed to the love of your life who has evidentally been out of the picture for a long time. Plus, I think that your relationship means a lot to your boyfriend, who would be heartbroken if you left him on the street for a past flame. I mean, put yourself in his shoes. Does it seem fair? I personally don't think so, but ask yourself that.
2006-06-22 09:49:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
People will tell you. . .you'll just KNOW, but that's just not true. In your situation, I suggest you stay with the guy you're with. There's a reason you're not with the other guy.
I'd also like to suggest an awesome book to you. I bought it for my 16 year old daughter, but got wrapped up in it myself. It's well worth the read - I PROMISE!! It's called When God Writes Your Love Story, by Eric and Leslie Ludy. I know, it sounds corny, but it's down to earth, honest, and makes so much sense it isn't funny! A must read for any single!
2006-06-22 09:49:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only reason the "love of your life" wants you is because he can't have you right now. stay with the guy your with. i am also assuming you still in your teens, do worry darling you have a long life ahead of you and you will more than likely date many other guys. when the TRUE love of your life comes by you'll know and that is the one you'll really want to spend the rest of your life with...don't be in such a hurry, enjoy your youth...good luck!
2006-06-22 09:51:21 · answer #3 · answered by TONY B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with the love of your life so you can get them out of your system for future romances. The second time around is never as good as the first time, though.
2006-06-22 09:47:21 · answer #4 · answered by gravelgertiesgems 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's normal to have feelings for your ex but you have to think why you split up in the first place. Why is he your ex and not your current? If you answer yourself honestly then you will find that there isn't really a problem and that your your ex is exactly what he should be EX!
2006-06-22 09:48:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
only time will tell what your heart wants. depending on your age, and life experiances, you might find that you're happier with your new guy cause there was a reason why the first one didn't work out.
2006-06-22 09:46:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i dont think so. I think once youve found the right person you'll know. I guess there will be a complete attraction and admiration for that individual.
2006-06-22 09:48:48 · answer #7 · answered by Kadianne M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to think long and hard which one you want to make the effort with and which one you want to be with in good times--and in bad times and than cut the other one lose. It's only fair to you and to them and to whichever one you decide you want to put all your efforts into.
2006-06-22 09:46:56 · answer #8 · answered by jljdc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with the guy your heart tells you to be with.
2006-06-26 12:59:09 · answer #9 · answered by joshrocksvegas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did the love of your life leave? asjk your self that.
2006-06-22 09:51:54 · answer #10 · answered by r.n.b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋