He cheated on females before me and now says that he has changed saying "been there and done that". Can i trust him
2006-06-22 09:43:15 · 14 answers · asked by Kadianne M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Nope. Once a cheater always a cheater. Sorry
2006-06-22 09:45:41 · answer #1 · answered by devildog29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would trust until you have a reason not too. I think for the right person a cheater can change but do not give him any leeway let him know up front the 1st time is a strike out. Good Luck
2006-06-22 16:47:16 · answer #2 · answered by 4X4 Woman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends if you love him and if you do then ya you should trust him because love is only true if it has trust and plus i know a guy that dated 3 girls at once then once he was single he went out with me and at first i didn't trust him but then i did and he never cheated on me and we still love each other and are really close so people can change. so i think you should trust him and if he cares enough then he will be true.
2006-06-22 16:51:54 · answer #3 · answered by pink angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! Because he sounds like he doesnt even care he cheated. Dont trust him. If he said something like: I am so ashamed of what i have done i will never do it again then you should give him ONE chance!
2006-06-22 16:45:52 · answer #4 · answered by pancake_tits_01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will know a tree by it's fruit.
If he has changed...you will know in time. Guard your heart until you know 100%. If you don't get to 100% in six or 12 months...then move on. He could easily hurt you.
Grace to you and God bless...
2006-06-22 16:47:50 · answer #5 · answered by Salvation is a gift, Eph 2:8-9 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really want to take that kind of a risk with your heart and your health (STD's)? He was a dog and probably still is a dog,. You are just getting another line so he can get in your pants....He's been there done that ready to do it again.......
2006-06-22 16:47:54 · answer #6 · answered by MC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately men tend to be about as faithful as their options. But if he hasn't cheated on you yet, you owe it to him to give him the benefit of the doubt.
2006-06-22 16:46:18 · answer #7 · answered by Guelph 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will probably have an addiction for cheating no matter what. Even if he isnt unhappy with you, he may be one of those guys who needs "options" and "variety" no matter what.
2006-06-22 16:45:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think he can... my husband has but then again, not everyone is the same.... if hes not given you a reason not to trust him... then trust him or your going nowhere
2006-06-22 16:50:10 · answer #9 · answered by heavensent41770 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know about that. Maybe you should see each other casually before committing.
2006-06-22 16:46:39 · answer #10 · answered by teena9 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋