2006-06-22 09:34:22 · 16 answers · asked by beAn*s MoMmy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
OK I looked at some of your other questions and this is obviously a major issue for you. I'm 29 my wife 28 and we have sex about 3-4 times a week. We both work, have kids, and responsibilities. Without all that we'd go at it like bunnies 24/7. Something is either wrong with him physically, he's not attracted to you anymore or he is getting it somewhere else. You're too young to be begging a guy to have sex. That's crazy. He should be still bouncing off the walls to have sex with you.
2006-06-22 09:39:17 · answer #1 · answered by devildog29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend with this same problem. So I asked my husband what advice I should give her and he said, "She should get in the bed (while he's there) and start playing with herself, if he's still got working equipment, he'll be turned on and want some of that action!" So that's coming from my husband and we have a very healthy sex life! Good luck! If he ignores it or is still uninterested, then I would seriously consider the fact that he may be getting it from someone else!
2006-06-22 17:27:59 · answer #2 · answered by pretty_nice_chic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got to try something different, 'cause what you're doing right now isn't working. Try some tried-and-true methods of getting his attention: greet him after work in a french maid's costume and only speak with a french accent; wake him up with a BJ; slip a pair of panties into his briefcase or pocket before work; take some nude pics of yourself with a digital camera and let him "find" them; show him that you "forgot" to wear panties next time you go out to dinner -- better yet, remove them in the bathroom and put them in his shirt pocket when you return to the table; ask him to pick a pair of panties for you to wear each morning; rent some porn and start watching it without him; ask him to help shave or trim you down there.
Any and all of those would work to get most men to do dishes, hold your purse while you shop, or anything else you want, so it should work to get him to have sex with you -- unless he's gay! Or has an undiagnosed mental or physical issue. Good luck!
2006-06-22 18:03:08 · answer #3 · answered by Judgie C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he just not interested? How long have you been married? I went thru something similar. Just remember, it's not your fault. If he's not interested, my guess is either he doesn't want you (sorry) or he's trying to get rid of you - maybe he's homosexual or just plain doesn't want to be married to you. DO NOT LET HIM UNDERMINE YOUR SELF CONFIDENCE!!!! Whatever is going on is HIS problem. Of course, it's yours too if you love him, but why would he marry you if he didn't want to be with you? Sweetie, it has to come to a point where you MUST acknowledge something is just not right. If you have loved this man to the best of your ability and he just flat out doesn't want you, BE REAL!!! The problem does not lie with you. Darlin', I'm crying as I write this. This kinda stuff will break your heart and mess with your head. You can spend the rest of your life wondering what you did wrong and never come up with the answer. Some people are just funny that way. Unfortunately, the folks that need normal love get involved with them, and they get so terribly hurt. I wish these kind of people could just hook up with each other. All I can tell you is to take care of yourself because NO ONE ELSE WILL!!!! I wish you the very best of luck, and God bless you.
2006-06-22 16:57:18 · answer #4 · answered by olelady55 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him, what you need is a well hung horned up guy (like myself) to take care of business with no strings attached, while hubby sits at home on the couch and watches Sport Center
2006-06-22 16:54:03 · answer #5 · answered by slick_pavement 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you and your husband need better communication. Maybe you should start by trying to find out what is wrong with him.
2006-06-22 16:43:32 · answer #6 · answered by qti36 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is either not attracted to you, or getting some on the side. It makes no sense, as I would be pouncing all over my wife if she would let me (and we've got 10 years on you two!) Guess we are in the same situation.....
2006-06-22 16:48:31 · answer #7 · answered by speedfrkscott 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy a bottle of red wine. Start having great conversations and laughs then to his surprise, bring out your toy and play with it in front of him until he gets aroused.
That should work!
2006-06-22 18:14:03 · answer #8 · answered by DVC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really I'd have to know what his problem is before I could advise you. Usually though, men are visual so put on a porn and sit down and watch it with him. that should be enough to get him going! good luck with it.
2006-06-22 16:46:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get yourself a toy :) when he sees that your are so much fun he'll want to join in. If he doesn't he has a major malfunction.
2006-06-22 16:50:17 · answer #10 · answered by Afro-Bandit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋