dont want him to do that but he wont listen
2006-06-22 09:34:16 · 14 answers · asked by lizzie d 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
hi.that's what a lot of married men say.if you love him,you should let him go.tell him you don't want to cause there marriage to brake up.you should say to him you don't want to see him anymore. stand back and see if he leaves his wife anyway.if he doesn't leave his wife,then you'll know he wasn't genuine about the things hes been saying.
2006-06-22 10:53:59 · answer #1 · answered by fantasia 3 · 9⤊ 3⤋
ooops,
For him, it`s an easy trap to fall into, what starts off as bit of fun and an adventure, perhaps with someone he has never met b4,
then as he gets to know you better, his feelings towards you start to change.
the ultimate is he falls in love with you, he neva meant to, it just happened, and wham bam he wants you and only you.
Do you want him, that`s the question you should b asking,
if Yes then GO FOR IT
if No then you TELL HIM YOU NOT WANTING A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP shout it at him if you have too.
just get it into his head that this is not what you want, both of you have got to want this,
What is he stupid, Y does he have to leave his wife, he can b with you and you can enjoy each other for a few hours then go your seperate ways till you meet again,
this answer not please some people,
but you can b married for 25yrs (more or less) stay 2getha, love each other (or say you do), but really you just complacent, take each other for granted, then one day an angel comes into your life (in this case his) and a fire burns in his heart for you.
Love wears a blindfold, and Ear protectors, he wont listen to anybody or see what`s happening around him.
he a poor sod, and you a lucky girl
2006-06-22 18:07:17 · answer #2 · answered by mysps 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So break it off with him and stop all contact with him. This is why you should stay away from married guys. Just because a guy says it is all about fun doesn't mean he won't develop feelings for you. Now you have possibly broken up a family over your desire for just a little fun. Mind you, your not the only cause because he is responsible for his own actions, but you chose to be with a man you knew was married.
2006-06-22 16:39:33 · answer #3 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm things got outta hand huh?
well for starters u can make him sit and explain to him why you are saying no. tell him calmly that he should think coolly about it. he should talk to his wife about this thing. i'm sure she has a way to tackle this fellow. she knows him more than u do. tell him that its not worth breaking an already going on relationship.
only and onl talking will help. be nice to this fellow. and be polite. u should not sound as if ur getting rid of him. u have to be cunning.
take care good luck!
2006-06-22 16:40:16 · answer #4 · answered by sunny98012 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey for a guy to do this is, it's all about love and that is true to the very meaning of it, the question is, are you ready to stand by him no matter what? and are you happy with him? answer this two questions, whatever answer you come up with, hopefully it will help you make a decision. i know how difficult it is, but at the end of it i guess happiness would make the difference....good luck to both of you
2006-06-22 17:56:35 · answer #5 · answered by s270wizard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you surprised? You and him are having all kinds of fun. The wife on the other hand is doing all the hard work.
2006-06-22 16:38:27 · answer #6 · answered by hardcoco 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him. Tell him that you are moving away and that you want nothing to do with him. Be cruel now because he's not going to listen until its too late.
He sounds simply unhappy with his marriage. Push him back!
2006-06-22 17:06:46 · answer #7 · answered by Wicked Top. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will never leave his spouse-hes lying to you! he ants the best of both worlds a wife and a mistress!
2006-06-22 17:30:50 · answer #8 · answered by Little Minx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should have thought about this before you went off with a married man you cant just play with peoples feelings.
2006-06-22 16:38:34 · answer #9 · answered by tra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, with sex comes feelings. It was bound to happen...You now have to endure the consequences of your actions...Good Luck...
2006-06-22 16:38:57 · answer #10 · answered by mesofemme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋