2006-06-22 09:26:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well you have to start by getting her to stop coming over to my house. Sorry.
2006-06-22 09:45:03 · answer #1 · answered by devildog29 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Let's see...make things as stress free as possible. Helping out around the house is sexy. Pick-up after yourself - and the kids if you have any - is a turn on. Make sure your nice and clean and don't have halitosis before you approach her.
THE SERIOUS ANSWER: Start by massaging her shoulders, caress her neck, work down to her lower back and waist, kiss her shoulder blades, massage her arms, hands. Start stroking her outer thighs ever so lightly, squeeze her buttocks gently, work yourself down to her lower legs and massage her calfs, slowly and I mean slowly seperate her knees and massage her inner thighs. Next, give her a passionate, long, open mouth kiss and gently bite her lips, proceed by taking your tongue and outlining her lips. Slowly, and deliberately massage her breasts. At that point, you may want to check her "oil" with your finger. If that doesn't get you laid...you must be married to a cold fish.
Try talking to her and she what she likes.
2006-06-22 09:48:28 · answer #2 · answered by bombshellicon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been waiting for someone to ask this question! I don't know the answer....I would like to hear all of the answers though, since I am on a 3-month drought. Makes no sense, as I treat her like a queen and do my best to be a great husband, but she just doesn;t reciprocate in the bedroom. Frustrating!
2006-06-22 09:32:08 · answer #3 · answered by speedfrkscott 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't just expect her to be ready when you are. For the most part, men are much easier aroused and can "tune" things out. Women have a hard time for that. Start slow, we do like that - although a passionate quickie is fun sometimes - and for her sake, please be sober. Not much of a turn on when the man wants sex because he's been out partying, pretty much a huge turn off for women.
2006-06-22 09:36:20 · answer #4 · answered by luvwhitelilacs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't behave like a jerk
make her feel good emotionally
give her space if she needs it
don't stifle her
don't make her feel guilty or obliged to perform the act
it should be consentual and wanted by both parties
Look at your relationship. There is a reason why her interest has decreased. You need to address those issues and then the physical part of your relationship will be as you want it.
2006-06-22 09:32:27 · answer #5 · answered by sharon h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl friend and sex = no problem...
wife and sex = a rare occasion
so get used to it dude, once they get the ring on their finger you can kiss sex good bye...
2006-06-22 10:23:31 · answer #6 · answered by DAVER 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to her and find out what is going on with her.
2006-06-22 09:35:44 · answer #7 · answered by qti36 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out what makes her "purrrr" and then do it...
You'll be amazed at how receptive she will be...
Good luck and never, ever give up!
Grace to you and God Bless...
2006-06-22 09:30:35 · answer #8 · answered by Salvation is a gift, Eph 2:8-9 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try showing her some affection
2006-06-22 10:06:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
send her over to me first
2006-06-22 09:41:49 · answer #10 · answered by river_runs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋