What are you most frustrated about? How do you cope with it if you are unable to resolve it?

Answer 1

There are too many things in life to be enjoyed to live a frustrated life. We have to constantly challenge ourselves to reach higher potentials. Learning new things naturally makes your brain hurt. The learning curve is always uphill at first. I prefer to be on the uphill slope of the curve. The top is when you are bored and going downhill is a disgrace. Nobody wants to be dead wood. I've also learned from observing nature that things don't always happen for reasons-sometimes they just happen. Birds don't have a reason for flying-they just do it. This helps cope with frustrating situations. I also believe that if something is not right in your life you OWE it to yourself to do something about it. No one is responsible for our happiness but ourselves.

Answer 2

That's a tough one. Everything has a beginning a middle and an end. It is disturbing to be stuck in the middle of what we could call a crises, which, in turns into frustration. Ask yourself, what can I do to resolve this issue. Exhaust all resources, if you have made some headway in the matter, please don't stop now. That will at least keep yourself out of the "middle". and on your pathway to the end. There is always away. This way to you can keep yourself satisfied, that you have done all you can do. And once again alleviate yourself from frustration.

Good Luck

Answer 3

My frustration is taking care of my family. Because my daughter is an adult and disabled. I get paid for caring for her. Then there is my Mother with demenia/altzheimer. She can't live alone but her mind is not completely gone to need a nursing home. Then my husband. He had heart surgery this year. He has changed. If I get close to him he pushes me away. I just have a mini nursing home. How do I cope! I have to ignore a lot of things. I do things that I enjoy. Money is not an issue. So I have a computer that I enjoy using. If it were not for it, I would really go bonkers.

Answer 4

Conflict is natural, so instead of 'coping' and 'resolving' we should learn to flow with it.

Our feelings and thoughts and behavior are all associated with a particular goal or belief. If that goal or belief is stunted or interrupted we experience frustration.

Take a deep breath - count to three before you reply - then rethink the new situation you are in. Adapt, adjust and accomadate to be strong.

Answer 5

right now i am really frustrated with this guy. he is my best friend and that says more than people think. we have a thing where we talk every night, almost, and we have a very deep trust. i also decided to make things complicated and then he made it even more complicated...it is a whole long vicious little circle that i decided to end. but he is still my best friend. now however, he went on vacation, and so did i but not to the same place, where there were different time differences. but it worked conveniently, he is one hour earlier than me, so calling would be easy. however, he doesn't answer my calls and he doesn't return them. it just seems strange to me. but it really isn't all that big of a deal; there are worse things i could be frustrated about.

Answer 6

at the moment I'm the most frustrated with being so sick for so long - thrown up average of 15 times a day since february, can't sleep, can't eat, it sucks. I just keep breathing and go on, hope for a good day, time passes. If I get suicidal over it and just want out of my misery, I think of what I may miss with my 2 yr old daughter.

Answer 7

Most frustrated: my man of 4 years simply won't tell me he loves me. I will probably never hear the "3 little words." But I'm in love with him, so I stay. I'm an idiot, I know. How do I deal with it? Sometimes I let it go, sometimes I wanna whack him with a skillet. Take what bothers you day by day until you figure out what to do about it. Sometimes there's a solution you never thought of right around the corner.

Answer 8

Oh boy. This kind of goes along with the "motive or whim" question. I have a vision or a goal of what I want to do and be in life. That goal is very dear to me but I don't seem to really be getting closer to accomplishing it. I haven't failed or given up, the dream is still very much alive. But finding that missing combination of "somethings" can be frustrating at times.
I will never give up on the dream though. It's the dream that leads us in our quest. I will never abandon my dream.

Answer 9

It is very frustrating being a middle class person living in a working class neighborhood and having very little in common with people here. People tend to see me as stuck up. On my end, I feel my life is completely devoid of intellectual stimulation and there is no one here I have any interest of making friends with.

It is very difficult to cope. I am isolated and unhappy. It is hard to live in a hostile environment.

Answer 10

I´m frustrated about thinking that I am not good enough...you know, not good enough for that guy, not good enough for my family, not good enough for that friend...I just fear, that basically I´m not good enough for myself.
How I cope with it?
The world continues to spin, with and without my frustration. I am a human being, a person, I may not ever be able to reach anothers standards, but I will surely try to reach my own.