Before you read this go read my other question called, "I need help!?"
Okay, i keep trying these things you told me to do on her, its hard. I'll tell you what i did: She is sooo not my BFF anymore, i found a new BFF (she was my BFF some years ago untill my other friend popped in) well, anyways, she is like the nicest person i know and we always hang out, i don't know why she wasn't my BFF before! hmm, so i hang out with her even more but then Amanda (not her real name, just fake one. the one i'm having a problem with) came in and is starting to hang out with Maddie (not her real name) i used to talk to Maddie about Amanda but now i can't cuz Amanda is playing her nice card and almost sucking up to Maddie! i am sooo mad! and Maddie also has the same problem with her friend Tess (not her real name)!!!! help!!!
2006-06-22 09:13:19 · 5 answers · asked by oliviaaa 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I can't just tell Amanda that i'm getting annoyed by her...she's soooo not like that!
2006-06-22 09:28:14 · update #1
Oh yeah, and she doesn't even talk to me when we're around other people! (i know its mean to say but i'm well, popular and she is embaressed to talk to me in front of other popular people!)
2006-06-22 09:29:17 · update #2
i just called "Amanda" to see what she was doing tonight and "Maddie" and my other good friend "Caroline" were they and Amanda was bragging about how they went to the pool today and how they had so much today, and how Maddie is sleeping over and how Caroline is going to watch movies tonight but then go home and also how Amanda slept over Oliva's (my other good friend) house last night and how they had they went shopping this morning but then Amanda went home and called up Maddie and Caroline to go swimming with her. she is so freakin annoying!!!
2006-06-22 10:13:45 · update #3
i feel like she's taking my allies away bit by bit
2006-06-22 10:18:13 · update #4
Stop talking about "Amanda" to "Maddie" behind "Amanda's" back. If you have a problem with "Amanda", then confront "Amanda" about it. Otherwise, "Maddie" is going to think that you might be talking about her ("Maddie") behind her ("Maddie's") back.
When "Amanda" gives you a hard time tell her to knock it off. If she continues, then tell her that the two of you can't be friends anymore because you can't be friends with someone who disrespects you. Be prepared to stand your ground.
We should always be looking to surround ourselves with people who want to support us in our tough times, not tear us down.
2006-06-22 09:41:25 · answer #1 · answered by Ponderous 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It looks like you've got yourself into a big mess with your friends. Wow...that's complicated. I think the best thing to do is tell the girl that is giving you problems to buzz off. This is going to be hard to do and you are going to seem mean but is she annoys you that much then just tell her to go away. This won't stop her from hanging with your new friend, so your going to have to deal with her until your new friends sees how annoying she is. I think you just need a breather from all of your friends. Have some time for yourself and just relax. HOPE THIS HELPS AND GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-06-22 17:27:48 · answer #2 · answered by peek a boo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you guys all need to get along an talkabout it tell amanda you don't like whaths e did and what she's doing and tell maddie to tell tess the same thing
2006-06-22 16:24:44 · answer #3 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Surrender, but gradually test the problem gal, and gradually find a way to expose her. Or move onto another.
2006-06-22 16:17:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have way 2 many problems
2006-06-22 17:20:27 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋