I am pregnant with this doctors baby and he's married. I don't know what to do. He said he could give me an abortion even if I was 9 months pregnant but not to tell anyone. HELP!
2006-06-22 09:10:20 · 83 answers · asked by snowy dragon 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
After speaking with Jodie Foster and Rory Emerald personally, I have made the decision to abort the baby. I am flying to Mexico right now to have it done. Thank you for all the good advice, but I just don't want this baby. Since I've been pregnant, I've had nothing but bad luck.
2006-06-23 14:19:04 · update #1
I'm a pro choice advocate...Your body...your choice. I am inclined to believe that you should carry through with the abortion. What kind of future would your unwanted child have anyway? There would be no father (other than as a sperm donor) and you would have to raise the child all by your self. If you do carry forward with your plan...make sure to keep it a secret. You wouldn't to get the Doctor in trouble with his wife or his lose his license. Good luck to you.
2006-06-23 10:39:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 17⤋
I want you to understand that this is no longer what you could describe as an abortion. The procedure will go as follows...you are forced into labor with pitossin. Then the baby (because that is what it is now) will pass through the birth canal. Then to prevent a live birth the "good doctor" will cut off what ever body part that baby sticks out first. This is what is called a partial abortion. There is also option B. The doctor will kill the baby while in uterine. The only way to do this is break your water and puncture the baby's scull and suck its Brian out with the same instrument used to do a D & C. Then you will be put into labor with the same drug and a dead half headed baby will be born because you slept with a married man. So I suggest adoption.
2006-06-22 09:21:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is the most inhumane thing a person can do. If you are already 8 months - you might as well have the baby. There are plenty of couples out there just dying to adopt a child.
I have heard horror stories of the nurses at abortion clinics holding a 6 month old baby until it took it's last breathe. It is already a living breathing human being. I'm sorry but I do not agree with abortion. It is hard enough to have one in the early stages much less so far along as you are.
2006-06-22 11:01:51 · answer #3 · answered by Lokelani 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice as a doctor is to seek the help of another Obygn and explain the situation.Most important when you get the second opinion from another obygn is for him to state in writing that the baby is fine and most important that the baby is not harmful to you.This i say because the only way that an abort can be performed legally at this point is that if the baby is causing a negative effect to you.Got to also say if the baby comes out now he will be able to live so there can be no reason for any abortion even if it is harmful to you.They will do a c section and take him out
2006-06-22 09:43:19 · answer #4 · answered by anastazia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is insane!!!!!!!!!!................. A baby born at 8 months or later will survive. At 8 months there is a very very slim chance that things could go wrong. My son was born at 8 months and is perfectly fine. What he is wanting to do is MURDER. Just think about the innocent child. If you do not want it fine......give it up for adoption. This doctor needs to be reported. He shouldn't even be practicing as a doctor. He obviously has no morals. If you wanted an abortion you should have done that long before you were 8 months pregnant.
2006-06-22 09:31:57 · answer #5 · answered by Kelli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Snowy: This is serious. That procedure could potentially kill you as well. You can not abort an 8 month old baby. It is just wrong and you will never forgive yourself. That baby is fully grown and is a person now. It would totally survive outside of your body if you went into labor right this minute. Please please please have that baby and either put it up for adoption or leave the area and raise him or her. You can not trust this doctor...btw: he could fully lose his medical license if you turned him in and a paternity test would be issued to confirm your allegations. If I were you I would make sure he loses his right to practice before he does this to someone else. How old are you anyway. Please get some help and take care of that baby. Tell your parents. They won't be angry with you - they will want to help you and if they don't call the police. Good luck.
2006-06-22 09:35:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, no, no. You should not have an abortion after 4 months. The baby is a baby now. I believe in abortion, but you're too far along. You need to talk to someone before you do anything. he is being selfish. If you cannot take care of the baby you can give it up for adoption.
2006-06-22 09:15:21 · answer #7 · answered by Shqiptare 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's murder...at that age the baby could live and survive without you even though it isnt "full term".
Get the hell away from him and have your baby. He's a sicko. You don't abort INFANTS...its one thing if you're talking about a "fetus" or and "embryo" or a "bunch of cells" that isn't even a "human form" yet...but an 8 or 9 month old child??? You might as well let it be born and then put a bag over it's face...cause it's the same thing...MURDER.
I'm pro choice and I think that may be the most disgusting thing I have ever heard.
2006-06-22 09:14:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if this is a real question then no. If your baby was born right now it would live. If you get an abortion now they are going to stick a needle in its brain to kill it and then they are going to rip its arms and legs off and suck them out with a vacuum tube. If this is a doctors baby and he is willing to kill it in this horrific manner than he is an idiot and you should not be with him. Also if you really are 8 mos preg than everyone who knows you can tell, so what do you mean he told you not to tell anyone, and if he means dont tell anyone its his and you are not ready to go it alone thats fine, just go to a local church or welfare organization and let them know you want to give the baby up for adoption, you can even pick the parents. There are many options other than killing an infant.
2006-06-22 09:18:32 · answer #9 · answered by greeneyedprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, let me say i believe the woman should have the choice to do what she wants with her body. i am no doctor, but i think an abortion at this stage is kinda "risky" to your health to say the least not to mention possibly illegal in every country in the world!
I strongly doubt the doctor's intentions are altruistic (and i am being VERY sarcastic here) being that he is married and i suspect if his wife found out about you (his mistress) he would be dead meat financially. but all legal,ethical and moral reasons aside, the real issue is whether or not YOU want to keep this child.
Only you can answer that question.
hey... you could put the baby up for adoption?
2006-06-22 09:34:18 · answer #10 · answered by paula k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO NO NO I rebuke that doctors thoughts in Jesus name. Have the baby le the baby live even if you choose to give the baby up for adoption. there are a lot of want to be mothers out here in this world that wasn't Blessed with the fertility level to have children like you have been Blessed so I tell you what. Stand strong hold on just a little while longer the baby will be here in Jesus name. Your baby is going to be here around July 28th hold out and make sure you email and let me know how everything went for you. God Bless You.......... Prophetess Teresa
2006-06-22 11:48:33 · answer #11 · answered by Prophetess Teresa w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋