I know some of you have seen my other questions, my wife cheated on me (I forgave her), and I know that she is doing it again. Hence the archinve questions. I know she is no good, but her cheating hurts BAD.
I am sort of addicted to this program!
2006-06-22 08:56:53 · 25 answers · asked by Russell O 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Your heartache will never go away; even if you break up. When something like cheating happens, it does tend to stay with you. The best thing you can do is move on, but never forget; it makes you who you are.
2006-06-22 09:00:11 · answer #1 · answered by Nikki S 1 · 12⤊ 1⤋
Can you prove she's cheating again? Because after her cheating on you once before, you may be super sensitive about it and maybe she's not. But if she is -with no doubt - you have to leave her. If a person cheats once and actually gets forgiveness, they're an idiot to do it a second time. She's disrespecting you - don't put up with it. Time heals all pain, but makes you stronger in the end. Good luck sweetie...
2006-06-22 16:25:34 · answer #2 · answered by Jess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you are going through is very unfortunate but, unfortunetly it happens. If it hurts you so much obviously it's not good for you and don't let anyone no matter how much you love them or how many kids you may have walk all over you. Stick up for what you believe in. My ex-boyfriend and I was together for 5 yrs. and i still am hurting from it and that was 6 mths. ago we broke up. So your hurting might be longer. There's so many other people out t here that will treat you better. She doesn't appreciate you so forget her. Hang out with your guy friends and bond with them like you did before you were married. Hang out with ones that are single. You'll be fine just remember to stick up for what you believe in and you got to keep moving foward not backwards.
2006-06-22 16:07:38 · answer #3 · answered by Mariah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can forgive but never forget I was cheated on by my daughter's mother we're friends now but I'll never forget it keeps me in line so i won't think with my other head believe me there are good women out here i know that's hard to believe don't hold the next one to what she did move on
she'll never know what she's missing till it's gone peace from the Big D
2006-06-22 16:03:17 · answer #4 · answered by D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lat year on Father's day my bf and I were on a "break" Well we still hung out about everyday and were intimate. Anyway he starting messing around with another girl and i didn;t know it. I was heart broken at the lies and secretcy. Anyway we worked things out and this year I caught him talking ot other girls on the phone ande-mailing them. talking about "hooking up". I am 8 months pregnant with our 4th child and was devasted. So I feel your pain. I flipped out and went into a stage of crying and hysterica....I felt like I was going to lose it. After talking to God I knew tht everythign would be ok. I had to make the choice of what it is going to take to make me happy. That is what you need to do. THink about you..go through a selfish phase and just ignore her and start going out. It will not take the pain a way but it wil help...also talk to a counselor. that will really help....good luckl
2006-06-22 16:09:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My heartache lasted for about 2 years when my ex-h cheated on me. I finally gather the strenght to divorce that man and eventually moved on. Once I found someone else I forgot completly about the him...
2006-06-22 16:00:48 · answer #6 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Russell, The Painter here, I have been one that has heard your heartfelt story, although I've never answered. This time I think I will, your heartache will go on for as long as you let it, you really should be at the end of your rope with this girl. You need to move on,you've given this woman your all man, maybe it's time you should start thinking of yourself. Russell, darnit bite your tongue, pack your stuff.......and go!!!!!!!!
2006-06-22 16:13:44 · answer #7 · answered by veteranpainter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
6 months
2006-06-22 15:59:03 · answer #8 · answered by whiskey1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think there is a actual time. My last heartbreak lasted probably 5 months. I really got over it when I just let her go 100% and stopped all contact and thinking of her.
2006-06-22 16:02:21 · answer #9 · answered by nope 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get counseling and help. Let her go and separate. She obviously does not care or want to change her habits or her ways. Move on with your life and heal with TIME.... It will take time and lots of it to even make the pain start to go away.
2006-06-22 17:42:39 · answer #10 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋