2006-06-22 08:51:54 · 43 answers · asked by eaw_mkj 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
if you are old enough to handle all responsibilities...which means you need to be a grown-up or you may have bad consequences.....I'm sure that everyone that didn't wait whish they did......make the RIGHT choice...
2006-06-22 08:56:26 · answer #1 · answered by vickififi 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
When you are married. There is no need to rush into these things. The first time is a sacred and beautiful time. It is so incredible if you just wait and I promise you won't regret it. I wouldn't give it to just anybody cause you can't get it back. If you wait until you are married, it will be much better because you will be in love. Anyone can be a whore and give it up early. Unless you are ready to accept the consequences for your actions, including pregnancy, and without the help of your parents or anyone else, then you are not ready. There are too many emotional issues that come along with having sex. I had many friends that got pregnant in their teens that are still struggling to support their kids. Me- I went on to college and now have a good career. They all wish they would have waited and regret having sex so young. I'll tell you, I had five friends who got pregnant when we were teens. Not ONE of those dads is still around. Do you really want that kind of life? I don't know how I would do it without my education. Raising kids is expensive. This is not anything to be taken lightly. Enjoy being a teen and learn how to show your love in simple ways. Chances are the guy who wants to have sex with you doesn't really love you. If he loves you, he will wait for you.
2006-06-22 09:38:12 · answer #2 · answered by 2boys mommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are willing to have it. Some people start young some people start later in age. I lost my virginity at 13 almost 14. I was 1 month away from turning 14. She was a lot older though. The time comes when your most willing. If I had to do it all over again? I would wait because its a feeling you won't experience again. After you do it, sex is just sex.
2006-06-22 08:58:15 · answer #3 · answered by Baby F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask your self that question then you are obviously not ready. Wait as long as possible. I wish I would have. You want it to be special not something that you'll regret later. If you don't feel right or if something in your head is tellings you to stop then definetly stop. Make sure that the first time you have sex it's because you love the person and you want to share yourself with them. Don't do it because your the only one who's still a virgin out of all your friends. Damn! I wish someone woulda told me that.
2006-06-22 12:01:15 · answer #4 · answered by Lin_Z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are mature == you are well aware of the difference between a one night fling and a long time commiitment -= you are ready to get married and wait for the honeymoon == other wise you have wasted one of the most precious gifts God has given you == any one can havesex almost any time == some one is alweays willing to be a part time partner and use you or equally enjoy 10 to 15 minutes of pleasure but it takes some maturity to wail til you are married == wouldn;t it be nice to ask your spouse on your wedding night am i the first and you be able to say of cours eyes == otherwise the other partners were equally using you and you them ==
2006-06-22 11:33:26 · answer #5 · answered by trey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just know. everyone is ready at a different time. i personally am waiting until i am married. i dont just want to have sex with someone and then regret it. i wanna be in love and do it with the person i am going to be with for the rest of my life. but this is something no one can answer for you.. its all about you
2006-06-22 09:06:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are ready to deal with the consequences of sex
2006-06-22 10:42:52 · answer #7 · answered by mommy_2_liam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will know after you take a class in high school called parenting you get to carry around a baby not just any baby but a baby from hell it cries and everything, if that doesn't change your mind you should think is there a ring on my finger and a marriage certifcate best advice don't do it, you will thank your self in the long run
2006-06-22 10:15:14 · answer #8 · answered by princessmuffie85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in a loving, committed relationship, are smart enough to use protection and are mature enough and financially able to deal with any consequences such as pregnancy (no birth control is 100% except abstinence or hysterectomy) or disease (condoms sometimes break).
2006-06-22 09:06:09 · answer #9 · answered by butrcupps 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you need to find the right person. Some one you are in love with, trust, and are happy with.
You will then know when you are ready. =)
2006-06-22 08:55:44 · answer #10 · answered by crazy4beadz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when your ready youll know....you shouldnt have to ask anyone....if your ready to take care of a baby and support a family thats when your ready
2006-06-22 10:24:00 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋