I am with my cousin's bf.I know, how awful.He says he loves both of us. And i know he really means it.He's only told 3 girls.but he is very jealous and puts us both through a lot emotionally.I really do love him with all my heart and i lost my virginity to him.I just think (in most cases) he doesnt know how to express his feelings n a positive way.Do you think i should continue to see him?Please keep in mind i really do love him and he really loves me very much.Please think hard before you judge me and give me steriotypical answers. please put yourself in my shoes.Thanks so much!
2006-06-22 08:37:23 · 7 answers · asked by heador26 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It is hard to just say stay or go because of all the other factors that may be involved. However, I think both you and your cousin are being played really well by a professional. He needs to make up his mind and choose. You can also take your life into your own hands and make a decision. You sound as though you really love him but having to share him is not fair to you. So go out there and find someone to make you their #1 priority, he may not be your soulmate but at least for while it lasts YOU ARE THE IMPORTANT ONE. Good luck.
2006-06-22 08:45:36 · answer #1 · answered by stacy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all only you can wear those shoes you are with your cousin's boyfriend does she know? It is impossible to love two, now you can lust for a lot of people, that don't mean you act on it. Second of all Love is not a word that you throw around like that, people get lust and love confused and the two have nothing to do with each other. Always remember you reap what you sow and how you sow it, that is how you will reap it. In other words you would not wont it done to you, but it will come back and bite you and you will hurt more. Fine your self-worth and don't ever make excuses for a man, he is who he is and those are his demons. Get out and learn from your mistakes and become a better person.
2006-06-22 16:08:56 · answer #2 · answered by Prissy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chance's our honey you boy friend here is a bum,now les get real here, the love two at one time is like in the movie's he may like you both but,i dought he love's either one of you.when you lovesome one there is no way you would do any thing to hurt that person,you want the best for them. i'v been in your shoe's honey ,i loved a bum more than i would like to admit but,the truth is honey, two people are going to get hurt and he's not going to be one of them.move on find some one else,i know it's hard but,you can do it.
2006-06-22 15:54:19 · answer #3 · answered by ms suzie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all how can you go for the same man as your cousin, I guess it might of been easy I couldn't see myself even going after a friends man coz I guess I don't want them to judge me with someone I know. Anyways You have to think of yourself get someone that will treath you right, and does your cousin know about this? Do you want to end friendships with her? Move on back, and change lanes.
2006-06-22 15:53:54 · answer #4 · answered by kayla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know love is blind and we can give you all the right answers but in the end you love him and you are going to do what you want, but I can tell you this, in a few years you are going to look back and say why the hell did I do that! I garantee you it won't last! But we all learn from experience, you are in the learning process!
2006-06-22 15:46:11 · answer #5 · answered by Sabrina D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is this way now. think of how he will be when he is full grow man. so really you need to move on and find someone who is less of an azz.
2006-06-22 15:40:56 · answer #6 · answered by chevy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GO~~~~~~~~~~~~~!!!!!!!
2006-06-22 15:46:00 · answer #7 · answered by David4ugirls 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋