2006-06-22 08:30:50 · 18 answers · asked by *butterfly* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Do whatever their heart desires. Have a threesome, or maybe even an orgy.
2006-06-22 08:34:14 · answer #1 · answered by Christina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you do anything else, sit down and talk with your partner. See if he feels the same way about your sex life. If so, then you can both work on livening it up together. There's lots of things you can try. First thing is fantasy, when you're making love, talk to him, be dirty, note the things you say that turn him on. Encourage him to do the same. Try new places to have sex. Don't just leave it in the bedroom, try the kitchen, the stairs living room etc. then if you're adventurous you can bring it outside, in the car, in the garden, in the woods etc. Let your imagination run riot. Remember, nothing in sex is too dirty or weird as long as you both are into it. Don't be afraid to initiate either. When you're horny, take matters into your own hands and try to seduce him. If it helps you, loosen up with a bottle of wine and see how things progress. Don't be afraid to use porn or other erotic material to get your juices flowing. The more you read/watch, the more ideas you will get. Good luck with the experimentation!!
2006-06-22 08:41:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
valuate what you are doing now that maybe making it less than exciting. Remember on very important thing, great sex is planned. Start out with a plan, dinner, romantic candle light, bubble baths, rose petals tossed all over the room, in the bath tub on the bed, so on. Apparel, what will you be wearing as the seductress or seductresee? This is as important for men as women. Cologne, smell irresistible. Beverage, plenty of them. Sex toys, music, body oils, massage tools, vibrators and all the fun toys! Be loving, willing,happy and most importantly have an open mind and patients, your partner may be overwhelmed and may need to catch up!
2006-06-22 08:42:39 · answer #3 · answered by want2flybye 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
add a 3rd person into the relationship.. he will either love it or hate it... either way will liven up your sex life
2006-06-22 08:34:03 · answer #4 · answered by Billy B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
New positions and new places. Try doing it somewhere else other than the bedroom. This should add some excitement to your sex life.
2006-06-22 08:38:03 · answer #5 · answered by clnavarro82 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best I have found is to watch porn this why you can learn new sex positions and role playing, Just try to keep it fun Sex NOT love making should be fun I always try to make it that why and when I am done most of the time we just lough about it.
2006-06-22 08:34:30 · answer #6 · answered by Jaysin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try the reverse Cowgirl! Awesome!
2006-06-22 08:32:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Glad (sort of ) that someone else isn't getting any. I feel for you, it's been four years here with very little sex. Nothing has worked to get her steamed up again, so sometimes there is nothing you can do.
2006-06-22 09:10:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Expirement!
2006-06-22 08:34:18 · answer #9 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use toys and be open minded to do something different. Role play, be aggressive.
2006-06-22 08:34:25 · answer #10 · answered by Melissa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Role play! Do the "doctor-patient" thing! Or, "police officer-burglar" scenarios...! Its fun!
2006-06-22 08:33:35 · answer #11 · answered by almato 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋