2006-06-22 08:29:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Offensive and hostile answers above notwithstanding, you need to be realistic. First, get a home pregnancy test. They are available over the counter at any drug store. Enlist the help of an older female relative or friend that you trust if you can't get one yourself. You need to find out immediately if in fact you even are pregnant. This situation will not go away or resolve on its own, so you need to be proactive. If and when it is determined that you actually are pregnant, you can go to your local Planned Parenthood and discuss your options, as well as options for going on birth control so this never happens again. As for involving your mother, I doubt highly that she will kill either you or her grandchild, but I won't be surprised if she's very disappointed. If you're not pregnant, you don't have to involve her, but you will need to change your lifestyle so that you don't have to worry again in the future. If you are and for some reason Planned Parenthood doesn't work out, you will need to involve her. Whatever you do, do NOT do anything stupid like try to perform an abortion at home or anything like that...you will likely end up very hurt or worse and can ruin your future fertility. I am not trying to lecture or be judgmental, but you do need to think about things long and hard. I hope this all works out the way you want. Good luck to you.
2006-06-22 08:55:29 · answer #1 · answered by Endo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is the reason why your pregnant in the first place, You don't tell your mother anything like being sexually active(she could have put you on birth control) Being truthful with her might surprise YOU!! Yes you will get grounded for the rest of your life, like(we say it but it doesn't really happen) But if you think about it, This is your fault for not being responsible. You shouldn't have sex if your not on the pill or don't have a condom. Talk to her when nobody else is around, You might be surprised.
2006-06-22 15:42:47 · answer #2 · answered by cwjs75 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is bad news. You should've saved yourself untill you were a little older. Everyone makes mistakes but at your age you cant even get a job to take care of the baby so the best thing to do is to tell your mom. She might be mad or she might have a good understanding but whatever her feelings are about the situation she can help you.
2006-06-23 00:44:03 · answer #3 · answered by red1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a home preg. test. Then contact your local social services to get a phone number for whomever deals with teen pregnancy. It could be Family Recovery, Lifeline, etc. Or you can look in the phone book in the government pages to find a pregnancy counselor. Also, perhaps you should trust that your mother loves you and confide in her. She will find out and she may even be willing to help you decide what is best. You will need and want her support.
2006-06-22 15:36:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope this isnt true, but girl, what were you thinking at 14???? If youre sexually active, USE BIRTH CONTROL. I realize this is after the fact, but for the future, please USE BIRTH CONTROL. You have options such as adoption but this is not something you can hide from your mother. In the yellow pages, there are places to call for help, like Birthright. Good luck and please believe me, "boys" arent worth it. At your age, there are out to get theirs not even considering the consequences.
2006-06-22 15:36:38 · answer #5 · answered by Kit Kat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her i thought my mum would kill me and i was only 15 going on 16 they tend to be more uderstandable than you think. Even my dad was really understanding about it. Just sit them down and tell them straight there is not point in makeing excuses cause there aint one but still you have to tell them they are proberly the only ones that`can help you. good luck.
2006-06-22 15:34:15 · answer #6 · answered by cherri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For real tho, DDD. Should kept those legs closed. And none of this wouldn't happened.
2006-06-22 15:36:02 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Chamillitary Amberleé♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww you poor thing.. i hope you not pregnant. and i hope this has tought you a lesson to wait on sex. your to young to have a child.. i hope everything work out for you
2006-06-22 17:35:02 · answer #8 · answered by kandi girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shouldn't have opened your legs....sorry, not tryin to be mean, but it would have prevented this problem.
2006-06-22 15:33:55 · answer #9 · answered by DDD 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sucks to be you
2006-06-22 15:33:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋