she is only 15 and so far she had 5 boyfriends this year and she slept with each of them at least twice and she didnt always use protection. i am very worried. what can i do? somebody help.please...
2006-06-22 08:24:39 · 31 answers · asked by Babygirl 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Damn, well if you care about your friend so much, what i think that you should do tell your friend that if she wants to lose her reputation at a very young age to go for it, but later on she is gonna regret it. That's how my friend was, and sometimes they thought that i would do the same thing too, so what i did is i stepped up to my friend and told her the truth about what i felt about her, i told her that she was a little hoe, that every guy in the street knows her as a hoe, and that i was simply embarrassed of her, and then she felt bad, and stopped being a hoe, and now every guy and girl is cool with her. If you don't want people to confused you as a hoe, tell your home girl the truth, and that's if you care about hers and your reputation.
2006-06-22 08:38:44 · answer #1 · answered by *La Loca* 1 · 3⤊ 2⤋
I think the only thing you can do as a friend is let her know exactly how you feel. Tell her that you are worried about her, because she's not using protection. Let her know that you don't want her getting pregnant especially the fact that she's only 15 and she's too young to become a mother and that since she's having sex with more than one partner she has the risk of getting some kind of Sexual transmitted disease.
If she doesn't listen then there's nothing you can do about it. I think the best thing for you is to learn from her mistake. Know that you don't like her actions and make sure that you don't follow her path.
~Cute Roses~
2006-06-22 17:37:59 · answer #2 · answered by Cute Roses 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because someone likes sex, they shouldn't be condemned for it, men aren't condemned for it, in fact they are congratulated. However, you should be condemned for it if you aren't using protection. Sleeping with 5 different boys in the space of 1 year, without protection, can lead to an STI, or/and pregnancy.
I would suggest that as her friend, you should say this to her. Tell her that she should make her boyfriends use a condom, otherwise she could end up getting AIDS, and end up pregnant. If she doesn't listen, don't tell her again, and when it DOES happen and she comes crying to you, you can tell her that you did warn her.
2006-06-22 16:54:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you don't think that the life that she has chosen to live is good for her health or her rep. Maybe these guys know that she is willing to give it up , and she is thinking that it is the only way to keep them. Let her know about all the different diseases out there, and the risk of pregnancy b/c she isn't using protection. Be a true friend and try to understand her, look out for her, and let her know how you feel. She really needs you now more than ever,even though she may rebel ,stay true!
2006-06-22 15:58:25 · answer #4 · answered by *FLIRTACIOUS* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK...first of all DONT listen to JOEY!!! He has no idea what he is talking about he is just a **** himself!!! Your friend is WAY too young to be having multiple partners!! She has had sex with the same about of people I have and im 23!!!
She is your best friend..you need to have a serious talk with her about the dangers of having unprotected sex!!! Pregnancy is the LEAST of her worries...contracting STD's or even worse AIDS is what she needs to be concerned about! Warn her about the reputation she could end up with if she continues on this destructive path!! You are rightfully concerned and if she blows you off when you try to talk to her or doesn't care or doesnt change her ways I would start distancing yourself from her. You could end up with "guilty by association" and end up with a reputation for sleeping around just because you hang out with her!! Good Luck!!
2006-06-22 17:14:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, sorry 2 say but your friend is a !hoe! Tell her that she is being a hoe, what she's doin is hoe like, she NEED 2 use protection before she ends up pregnant & catches something, & before she loses you. Tell he r2 STOP having sex with ALL if these boys b4 she gets hurt. First u need 2 try to help her first & if she's NOT willing to listen 2 u then u need to not b her friend unless u wnat a friend that's a hoe. Holla back!!! Ya girl, Miss *Princess* $Diva$ !Jade!
2006-06-22 16:17:43 · answer #6 · answered by sexy_lilmama_always 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay, let me ask you this, how long did she stay with those boys, because she's turning into a little teenage ****, very, very early stages, trust me I see it all the time, talk to your friend, or at least her parinets, casually remark to them that you think she needs it, it may be bad, but if you're worried she aint using protection, then she will probably get pregnant, and that would be even worse at her age, it happens way too often these days, it may be a stupid solution, but what's stupider is letting her get away with having sex, tell her to ask her parents to put her on birth control...
2006-06-23 00:25:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has she been emotionally abused as a kid? Bullied maybe?
She is just seeking love and affection. Ask her why she does it and what she enjoys about it. Make her think about why she does it and what the consequences might be.
Does she want a baby, or worse, an infection that ruins her life?
Tell her to go look up Clymadia, that might shock her into changing her ways and to respect her body more.
2006-06-22 20:17:58 · answer #8 · answered by super_star 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women respond to teary eyed, break me down tear jerkers. If you express it to her as a concern for her life and not just preachy about her promiscuity, she will more than likely listen as oppose to dictating your morals to her. I don't know what it is about the human race - we prefer to burn and learn, rather than hear and learn. You are a good friend but note that you cannot save those who do not want to save themselves. You can only tell her not force her - not even her parents can do that - although I would lock her in the basement until she turned 30...oops did I say that out loud - oh well....
2006-06-22 15:44:20 · answer #9 · answered by moved 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if your friend did not use protection when sleeping with these guys, she needs to have a pregency test and test for an infection that she might have. Tell your friend it is not health life style to jump striaght into bed with each guy she looks, tell her that she will have a bad name in the village and to hang out more with some of you girls.
2006-06-22 15:41:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋