he's separated (2 yrs)from his wife and we live with each other and hasn't gotten a divorce and is procrastinaring what do i do? I cook,clean, make love to him and he shows it back , so what's he waiting for
2006-06-22 08:09:27 · 16 answers · asked by Don-Diva 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why should he marry you??? He's got it good, and you think you are lucky to be with him? He's once bitten, twice shy, babe. You need to move out, kick him out, or at least get help. I mean professional (relationship, not mental) help, not advice from your peers, coworkers, or Yahoo!Answers folks.
I say this because you are asking if he loves you, when you should be asking yourself why you love this guy who is a proven adulterer (with you). Can you really trust a 2-timer? You should be asking yourself what kind of future he A) can provide for you (with or w/o the divorce/remarriage) and B)is actually willing to offer you and deliver the goods.
2006-06-22 08:31:12 · answer #1 · answered by im_a_fun_nut 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all if he truely loves you he will divorce her and then be with you. He should not be procrastinating if he loves you and wants to be with just you! He still seems to love his wife if you ask me if he is not divorcing her. Does he have kids? This could make a difference too. You may want to seperate and leave for a while until the divorce is final. Basically why buy the cow when you get it all for free!
2006-06-22 10:30:32 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have two quetions, 1."does he love me?" 2. "What is he waiting for?" number 1. usually after 2 years of lovin and crazy sex (assuming of course) the butterflys and lovey, dovy, feeling kinda go away and you begin to deal with each others character differences, which takes work. Its hard to say if he loves you, based of the info, but I am married, and I had a drive to marry this women because SHE set the standard, what she wanted. and because I loved her, I wanted that also. Numer 2. My previous relationship lasted 4 1/2 yrs. and we talk about marriage but never did, why? I think its because deep down I knew and I think she knew we were not for each other. When SHE dumped me, It hurt and I truly loved her, I even asked for her back; but looking back I So glad I didn't marry her, we wouldn't of made it. So in a nut shell, SET THE STANDARD, OR LEAVE HIM.
2006-06-22 08:38:50 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. Advise = ) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you pick finally end up a guy that pick to be with you and in undemanding words you. he will somebody else. and believe me, he no longer truly worth this, because if he with her, and chatting with you for a three hundred and sixty 5 days then he dishonest on her, so why dont you imagine in case you purchased jointly that he does no longer do the exact same element to you that he doing to her imagine about it. time to bypass on.i'd were lengthy gone, i does no longer have waste a three hundred and sixty 5 days.
2016-11-15 03:13:34 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what he is waiting for girl. Give him a time limit, and if he can't meet it then kick his azz to the curb. Why should he hold on to his wife if he wants to be with you? Make the right decision.
2006-06-22 08:13:45 · answer #5 · answered by Christina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you living with a man who is married? He may be separated, but he's still married. Leave him until he's ready to commit to you.
2006-06-22 08:22:36 · answer #6 · answered by Drummer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is he still belongs to another. Stop playing house and let him know it's all or nothing.
2006-06-22 08:16:49 · answer #7 · answered by chickidee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOu made it easy for him. He's confused and you need to set him free to make up his mind because you basically gave him the cow for free.
2006-06-22 08:32:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do women still fall for the "'I'm still working on my divorce" trick?
2006-06-22 08:18:48 · answer #9 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's prolonging the inevitable! He will be taken for everything! I'm sure he loves you he just doesn't want to pay out his a@#!
2006-06-22 08:16:53 · answer #10 · answered by amylr620 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋