I got f***ed in the *** by a guy when I was in first grade it didn't ruin my life. My mom's never gotten justice for all the s*** that's happened to her and she's moved on. So what's the big deal?
2006-06-22 08:01:32 · 10 answers · asked by mrkitties420 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Can I kick your behind for this question, sir?
At this particular moment, you sound like: you are either in denial for the whole mess (don't worry it happens to many), trying to ignore it the best you can (it's the hardest thing to do), or not yet at the stages of the realization for the whole cituation (at this moment, be ready to have all the possible feelings to come up to the surface), that are always there when you least expect it... Your Mom has gone through all that and right now she's able somehow to put her life back together, even though it'll be hard and to the degree of the miracle. I feel so sorry for both of you and I hope you will all recover from this insanity.
The big deal is this: Emotional, physical, psychological and mental abuse that the victim has to undergo during and after this vicious act. The scars are not seen on the surface, but they're deep and painfull on the inside, as well as many other problems. Even though years will pass, everyone is bound to remember something like this even in a passing.
"Overrated" is not even the word for this tragedy, stupidity and insanity. The more appropriate word will be "Underrated." There IS a huge difference between these words... And, you are damn lucky enough to feel that it didn't ruin your life in any way, shape, or form. Not that many people can call themselves that (including me).
2006-06-22 08:44:16 · answer #1 · answered by tiger_pisces7483 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-31 07:35:28 · answer #2 · answered by aguas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a big deal and I am very sorry it happened to you. It is good that you don't feel it ruined your life. To move on and forgive is the best thing but it isn't so easy for everyone. Your mom might have really loved you and helped you thru it but not everyone has that support. I would encourage you to understand that what someone is feeling may be valid for them and it is not up to you to decide for them. You could use your situation to encourage others...not to lose patience with them. You could be adding to their unresolved pain.
2006-06-22 08:11:34 · answer #3 · answered by Barbara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your a asshole!! rape is a big deal for people its even harder for kids. my friends was rapped before and she never told me or anyone elsa. the way i found out is when the guy tried to pull her into the car over her house, i really had to try and pull her away and lock the door before the police came he was gone. she keeped this from me and her parents for years and it keep happening every single day he used to threntn her saying if she said anything he would kill her he beat her and any horrible thing. your a real punk ***** and a *** for saying things like that go to hell you ****!
2006-06-22 08:10:06 · answer #4 · answered by Echo♠ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes it is how a person gets raped that will stay with them for ever. I am glad that it did not affect you. But you need to remember that not all rape victims are not that lucky and the pain and scares will got them forever.
2006-06-22 08:09:26 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rape is wrong and society should not tolerate it. I am sorry that you and your mother did not get justice. The squeaky wheel gets the grease when wanting justice sometimes.
2006-06-22 08:06:57 · answer #6 · answered by icemountian8 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, at least you got some satisfaction from it. You should try jail. I heard that guys with your kind of happy history would fit right in.
2006-06-22 08:05:59 · answer #7 · answered by spookyscribe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THE BUG DEAL IS PEOPLE NEED TO LEARN THAT IT IS NOT RIGHT IN NO WAY NO HOW. jUST BECAUSE YOUR FINE AND DANDY DOESNT MEAN OTHERS ARE AS STRONG. STOP AND THINK HOW MANY OTHER PEOPLES LIFE THAT GUY RUINED!!!!!!!! ALL BECAUSEJUSTICE WASNT SERVED.
2006-06-22 08:07:18 · answer #8 · answered by shellshell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is by far the stupidest question I have personally ever heard...you really are a moron
2006-06-22 08:15:13 · answer #9 · answered by Radtech1996 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can't get pregnant from being sodomized, pal.
2006-06-22 08:13:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋