I'm really into this other guy, I know deep down he likes me too, but I have another boyfriend, who I also live with, I don't know what to do as I'm soooooo torn! I love my boyfriend, but this guy is perfect in every way, and my heart flips every time I see him...help?
2006-06-22 08:00:47 · 16 answers · asked by Sunray 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You need to think with your heart if you want to spend the time with your boyfriend or this other guy who actully may not be as perfect as you think. it could also be just a fling
2006-06-22 08:04:20 · answer #1 · answered by jkrocks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He seem new right now, but I'll tell you from experience. The grass isn't always greener on the other side. I mean if you have something good right now I would say stick with it. At the same time if you aren't married then hey to each there own. I've thought the grass was greener a lot of times in my day only to find out its not that much better or even worse. Don't let this guy being new cause you to make bad choices. Good luck.
2006-06-22 08:06:16 · answer #2 · answered by newburg_2_fine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know the saying the grass is always greener on the other side! & darling there is no such thing as a perfect guy! Yeah he might seem it on the outside but how well do you know him?!
You obviously don't love your boyfriend if your torn!! If you loved your boyfriend no-one else would come into the equation!!
It really annoys me you say you love your boyfriend and he might love you - but then some guy comes along who makes you want to drop your knickers and you consider leaving the guy you love and then cry when your all alone with no-one to blame for your misery but your own stupid help!
Your desicion at the end of the day though.....................
2006-06-22 08:04:40 · answer #3 · answered by Mel.B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't, don't, DON'T be tempted to have an affair with him. If you do and end up being with him then he will never trust you.
Tell your current boyfriend that you need some time apart.
Then DATE - that doesn't mean JUMP INTO BED WITH... the other guy. You'll know pretty quickly what he's after - but take off the 'pink' sunglasses... remember guys will say ANYTHING to get you to sleep with them... and they've had lots and lots more practise at getting their way than you have had deflecting the BS lately.
2006-06-22 09:04:19 · answer #4 · answered by bonsnoangel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi sunray, I know what you mean by this problem. I too have had this before and I found the best way round it is to always follow your heart and not your head. This is because the heart always knows whats right long before the mind does. Remember that and your answer will come.
2006-06-22 08:18:17 · answer #5 · answered by rockin mermaid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is something that you REALLY need to address. What is SO wrong with the man you are with now?What ever you do.DONT CHEAT! I know how it feels to be cheated on.Now is this other guy just a like?Maybe it is LUST for this other guy.Hey I dont know yall so not sure. One thing I know is that games with the heart hurt.So you need to take this one very carefull.If you would rather be with this guy and he wants you maybe yall should try, but remember the guy you are with has feelings.
2006-06-22 08:08:52 · answer #6 · answered by rose_mc_mo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a committed relationship and a good thing going with your boyfriend don't ruin it because something that appears better comes along the way. Could be just a bad case of lust. Be careful.
2006-06-22 08:06:24 · answer #7 · answered by dsd 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was dating a guy for 2 years. i worked with another guy who always told me that he would get me one day and i would always roll my eyes at him because we were so opposite. when my bf and i decided to "take a break" i asked the co-worker out. it was the best thing i ever did. (it was the same thing, i love my bf but this guy made me have chills down my spine.) 3 years later we are still together. do what your heart tells you, just make sure he is REALLY into you like you are with him.
2006-06-22 08:04:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are thinking like this and you know for definate the guy u like wants a realationship then split with your man and go for it or u will regret it.
dont cheat on you current man tho as you will feel guilty every time your with him and mess things up with him if this new guy doesnt work out
2006-06-22 08:04:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you still love your boyfriend - don't ruin a good thing. Grass is always greener on the other side.
2006-06-22 08:03:37 · answer #10 · answered by bluskygreengrass 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋