ok this girl babysat my boyfriends nephew and neice, and then slept with him last summer when someone passed away in my boyfriends family. she was tryin to be his girlfriend, but he left her and stayed with me. so here me and my bf are. awhile ago she came to my work to harass me and then we talked another time and she apologised. now she wont leave his family alone, she hangs out with my bfs brothers and gets drunk, and she calls my bf's mom and says she loves her. she doesnt bother me tho, but i feel like she is tauntin me. seriously wat should i do? should i be a ***** and lash out, or should i just smile?? ???????????
2006-06-22 07:56:16 · 11 answers · asked by amanda 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
As long as you KNOW hes not going to f*** her again keep on smiling. That's what my "angel" would say to do. Real Life: Confront her, if she says something you don't like give her a good old fashioned beat down. That'll teach her a lesson ;)
2006-06-22 08:06:34 · answer #1 · answered by a_rose7073 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. He has no ethics. If he didn't learn them in childhood then the only way he will EVER learn them is through a great deal of suffering.
Do you want to be part of him while he suffers THAT much and drags you with him?
Until then, he will continue to do what he did, and make excuses.
In addition, if you are with him, your own ethics aren't so good. Have you suffered enought to take all those well-intentioned people who warned you seriously? If not, that's unfortunate. Being an adult you do not have the safety net of school which isn't always straight with kids about how much suffering is possible for kids who don't learn the basics of what teachers teach, as you know having left school at 15.
You owe him nothing. Likewise, he doesn't owe you. You have no contract. No marraige. Leave. If you have a child, but he wont' commit to you (words are not a commitment. They are an evasion of marraige by guys who want an out, which your bf already took advantage of once).
You knew he was an iffy choice to begin with, didn't you. Notice that is not really a question, but a statement. You chose this and hoped that you would win on loooong-odds. You lost.
Get out, try a better game. Leave her her winnings (him).
Or are you saying you aren't worth more? That this is the best you will ever have? That you can't afford a different kind of risk? That 'love' is worth it?
I've been in love three times, but had many relationships over the years. Too many. Love has never hurt me. Desire has.
Love him, but leave him.
Choose.
2006-06-23 07:52:56 · answer #2 · answered by mckenziecalhoun 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave well enough along shes not bothering you why are you so angry you didnt say his family was having a problem with her. your bf he is to blame he started it all he could have very well pushed her away yet he didnt uh some one passing is not a excuse that is what you choose to except was his reason honey it was something he wanted to do he just gave you a excuse dont trust him he has more skeletions in his closet
2006-06-22 08:07:15 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no u shouldnt smile u should call the police and explain everything im sure it would be alright just take it easy and think this through asked urself this question do u want that person to keep harrasing u and flirting with ur man or do u want to put a stop to this and be with ur man....???? i think u should call the police and tell them EVERYTHING!!!!
2006-06-22 08:05:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm...it sounds like you need to check your man sweetie. he is the one who cheated. she doesn't have any obligation to you...your man did and does. if you want to stay with him then he needs to talk to her and get her straight. if he can't do that then you need to leave!
2006-06-22 08:09:00 · answer #5 · answered by brazilian princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump his ***, he's the one that cheated on you.
Is your bf a pansy, tell him to deal with her.
2006-06-22 08:00:59 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to judge hatchett with her you and your man and see if you can get that wiches money and get her arrested for harrassment
2006-06-22 08:03:44 · answer #7 · answered by cinncinn95 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go beat the living **** out of her!!!!
2006-06-22 08:00:26 · answer #8 · answered by wildblonde_23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should definately confront her about this or she will take him from u. if u ignore it u will regret it.
2006-06-22 08:02:25 · answer #9 · answered by dimples 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can we say Jerry..Jerry...sounds like you need to take her on Jerry Springer and beat her ***...
2006-06-22 08:04:25 · answer #10 · answered by oleboy8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋