He was completly honest and told me that same day (Yesterday)he seem sincerally honest and this was the only time he has ever done anything to hurt me we have been trying to get pergnate for 2 years with no sucsees which can bring on some stress but nothing too bad. he says he wiil and can fully commite himself to me and had a life together if iam willing to try but i dont know what to do i still love him as stupid as that sound please anyone with an open mind please give me some advice before i ruin my life
2006-06-22 07:55:34 · 14 answers · asked by kymmeloves88 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
an affair is bad, but he told you the same day, that's love and if you can believe that was the only time and that he won't do it again i would give him another chance...however i would recommend couples counseling, you're going though a tough time and its obviously the reason he cheated....also try to lighten up a bit, do something for fun together to get your mind off of everything..
2006-06-22 07:59:18 · answer #1 · answered by jada_24 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think once a cheater they will always be cheaters. If he really, I mean really loved you then he wouldn.t even had thought about cheating on you. He has no self control. It will be up to you what you do from this point on. Can you fully trust him again? If he tells you he is going to the store are you going to believe him? If he is gone for a few hours and you try to call his cell and he doesnt answer, Are you going to think he is messing around on you again? There is alot to think about. He didnt do it because he was "stressed" out. That's bullsh it. I hope you make the right call. Good luck
2006-06-22 08:03:04 · answer #2 · answered by bigdog_0032 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe it's a good thing that you were not succeesful in getting pergnate since he may be a cheater forever.
2006-06-22 08:01:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can give it another try to see how things will be.. but i can let you know that there is going to be a lot of arguing about stupid little things.. Just remember if he did it once he will do it again!! I'm telling you from experience!!
2006-06-22 08:03:46 · answer #4 · answered by Lisa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for couples counselling .. and see if your heart can let it go and if you believe that he will not do it again .. If you think he might do it again or if he does not comit to counselling then dunp him and move on .. otherwise it might be worth giving a shot .. everyone can make a mistake ..
2006-06-22 10:16:46 · answer #5 · answered by kunal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you need to bone down with a hung stud to get even.... then do it and show him a picture of you being taken by a hung guy of the opposite race of your guy... works every time!
2006-06-22 08:02:33 · answer #6 · answered by slick_pavement 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was cheated on WHILE I was pregnant. I firmly believe that "Once a cheater, always a cheater." Be smart and let him hurt someone else.
2006-06-22 07:59:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him, he has a problem understanding and respecting the words "fully commited to you."
2006-06-22 08:00:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it really sucks that he cheated on you because of "stress" everyone has stress. its up to you i mean if you want to try to work it out then to that, but i would maybe suggest councelling because there may be more to the situation than he is letting on.
2006-06-22 07:58:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your married forgive him if in your heart you dont beleive he will do it again.. If your not married dump him, without a doubt.
2006-06-22 07:58:42 · answer #10 · answered by Tunasandwich 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋