Sitting across from me is this girl who makes my eyes pop out of my head, she has a killer body, I mean if I describe my type of woman she fits the bill 100%, I love just talking to her about stuff. When she reciently broke with her boyfriend (4 months ago) she cried on my shoulder. I want to say something to her but I value our friendship, our current relationship is also as classmates (MBA program). It is for these last two reasons I really do not want anything to change between us.
It is funny on anything else in my life I can make a decision on which way to go but this time, WHY?
2006-06-22 07:27:24 · 6 answers · asked by I R G _ H I Q 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It happens to all of us. We aren' t accustomed to handling our hormones. Logic can not respond in situations like this.
So, often our greatest fears are our greatest opportunities. Let me ask you this Mr. logical thinker? What would be the worst that could happen if you were shot down? Follow up with the similar question: What would be the worst that could happen if you didn't?
Don't set yourself of future "I should have's" or "IF only's" . Live life on the calculed edge. It exhilerating!
2006-06-22 07:36:21 · answer #1 · answered by RunningUte 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should probably just stay out of her business and let her handle it.Don't act like her mom and worry about her!She's old enough to make her own decision.When it comes to few guys like you,some don't make very good decisions about other peoples relationship problems anyway.So just let her girl friends handle it.She could probably tell them everything and whats going wrong and they will probably comfort her better.Don't think that she likes you though because she probably just needed a shoulder to cry on that minute.When you say "I want to say something but I value our friendship" are you going to say something bad?Well just dont worry about her so much.
2006-06-27 18:39:48 · answer #2 · answered by Qu3L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GO FOR IT. I think that you should find as many reasons as possible to be around her. You are doing the right thing right now by getting to know her. You could say things like I can not believe that you and 'Joe' broke up. He is so stupid as to not see what I see. I bet he regrets you splitting up. Don't pass the opportunity up! She maybe the perfect girl for you!!!
2006-06-22 14:37:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a frequent case...so..the thing is:Think what you value more:friendship or love..but think twice..you already have her friendship..but you are not sure if she loves you...find out what she really feels for you ..but careful maybe you will wait too long and it will be too late...it's all up to you! GOOD LUCK!
2006-06-22 14:33:38 · answer #4 · answered by juliejoker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She cried, means she really cared/loved about her bf. If you step into this picture before she can get over him - it will be for nothing - but your heart will be crushed. Be her friend for now, give her time. Good luck
2006-06-22 14:37:43 · answer #5 · answered by Leila 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't want to be the rebound guy, trust me, but if you think your friendship can last even if she doesn't feel the same way, go for it.
2006-06-22 23:12:51 · answer #6 · answered by prfadfels 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋