Am i still a virgin...??

Question

Last night my boyfriend fingered me.am i still a virgin...

Answer 1

Yeah but if his fingers touched his dick you could be pregnant...

So if not on the pill already do it now and if you think any seimn could have got in even if not sure get a morning after pill NOW...

If not good idea to do a dry run so if you need one you can do it fast.

If his fingers or yours went no wahere near his willy you will be fine...

PS you are not immoral, dirty or anything just being affectionate


Any way semin gets in (and stiff willys get lubricated by a few drops.

Can make you pregnant. Likewise if he pulls out early and shoots it over your bits.


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Right assuming you two are of similar age... how old is he if not.

Biologically most start to get sexual between 16 and 18 if thats what you are getting at. Howeever if in the US this may be a problem dur to silly laws that ignore human nature... Most successful countries have ages of concent around 16 and some have staggered systems (ie maximum age for the older one).

If you want to go further sexually sex ed 101.

ANY way a single cell and there are millions in a drop gets in or near your fanny can get you pregnant...

This means it swims so a drop on the outside nearby when the area is wet could swim, certainly if on the outside (or say squrted on butt and drippled down, in your underwear or like in porn movies shot over the outside CAN get uyou pregnant.

Likewise anythignon fingers say he rubs his willy or you do then rub or finger inside your bits, or when taking off the condom it gets on you fingers... then in or on you...

ALSO can get you pregnant... Likewise STDs

Whilst you cannot get pregnant via kissing or blow jobs you can get STDs from blow jobs. Sexually Transmitted Deseases.


Also anything oil based ie chocoalte or vasaline or icecream getting on condom rubber acts like acid making tiny holes. 30 secs for virus, 60 anything else you cant see. Polyurathne one sie Durex Avanti condoms are immune to this as not rubber and also suitable for those allergic to latex...

This means no going further unless you are on the pill... Better still on a patch or injection or something you can't forget or take late say if you selpt in or it does not work.

Likewise some medicines or drugs may stop it working...


So pill for you AND condoms AND practice with them as not so easy.(can can be torn if you leave air in the teet or sharp rings etc and if he flops a little can come off occasionally,.

So two forms of contraception at least.


Also do a practice dry run on getting morning after pills if anything goes wrong so you know where to get them and how in several places including ones that don't tell parents.

Then practice with the condoms... this means in the dark, get them out of pockets from clothes thrown on the floor, out of the packet and only (in your case fake willy from adult joke shop or suitable vegetable...very quickly... Take to long he will flop.


Plus he should be practicing by tossing off with them (thinking of you hopefully as opposed to porn stars... if you aint comfortable with that idea you are not ready to do it.), then comming. Then practicing getting it off with the deposit inside with no splashes, trying it up and safe remember in the dark? out of the wallet etc.

Maybe this is something you could do together when you are on the pill. And he wash in the shower... you could peek.

Then and only then should you start to go further plus getting STD tests and even if you are virgins this is valid. As you can catch AiDS from doing 1st AID on someone.


Then you may be readdy...


Sound like lots of work? well thats what being grown up enough to do it means...

You ignore any suggestions on birth control form the church as they are all liers...go to family planning clinics that aint church based.



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OK that done... Should shouldn't have sex just like a totally preplanned thing... you should be used to first, second, third base with lots of feeling, kissing, stroking, kissing bits and licking them etc before you go all the way and having seen each other naked before.


That way you wont be all stressed and tense and pressured as will be having fun only this time taking it further.

In the UK the age on consent is 16 and if you were used to stuff like that.

Also you dont have to go all the way... there are always blowjobs that guys love especailly when done right, hand jobs on each other, boob jobs with him between your boobs... etc


All a lot safer and lots of fun for couples too. The boob job thing is the safest. And if all that is stuff you both like then sex should be ok...


But think through it carefully...

Can't see him dumping you especailly if you have been going together for 9 months.

But do it for the right reasons... Forget marriage and the divorce rate.


Whats more important is all the safety stuff and if you are readdy and the prep stuff.

When its right for you it should be great and affectionate and fun... Do note its unlikly that he will last long you you will probably have to finger yourself (or get him to do it and play teacher and student) or him lick you out till you *** too.

And if you got grossed out by that stuff I mentioned you are too young and not ready

Hope that helps...



Then ok if you want to go further and have got and following all the above stuff...

YOU ARE GOING TO HAVE SEX, most folk between 16 and 18. MAKe sure its a great first time.

Answer 2

yes u still are a virgin; i have read in some of the answers that ur hymen needs to be broken for u to lose ur virginity, a broken hymen Does not however mean u are no longer a virgin ,but the actual penetration is what will cause u to lose Ur virginity.I broke my hymen during an exercise at age 14 i told my doctor and he told me it meant nothing but did not have sex till i was 21.

However u sound as though u are not really ready for this, now he is fingering u and soon u will throw all caution to the wind go all the way because more and more u will start wanting to feel the real thing.

I advise that u take it easy, cos if ur legs start opening up for a fingering, he will assume u are giving him the go permission to go all the way.

Keep ur virginity until you decide when to give it up, and when u do eventually have sex make sure it is what u want and u do not regret it.

You may find that it is the best thing you ever give to the man you love

Answer 3

If you haven't lost your virginity yet, you probably will soon as long as you allow your boyfriend to do stuff like that. Engaging in activity like that will only lead to you going further than you should and may also lead to some very painful consequences like disease, abortion, or even death. You are a young attractive woman. You shouldn't let yourself be devalued like that. You should only share yourself with the man you intend to share your life with (are married to). Read your Bible Honey because your question indicates you need much more wisdom, and the Bible will give your Lord's wisdom which will lead to much more satisfying and permanent happiness than a finger job from your so called boyfriend. Also, introduce your boyfrined to the bible for he is obviously ignorant of God's laws too. Ignorance is no excuse. Choose God's word (Life & Happiness): not sin (Death & Misery). I hope well intentioned email helps guide the both of you back to the right path off of the wrong one you are heading down which will ultimately lead to both of your destruction. May Our Lord have mercy on you and guide you home.

Answer 4

It doesn't matter if the hymen breaks or not to determine virginity, some girl's hymen's break randomly.

Now...if a guy's dick is put into a woman's vagina for even a second...then yes virginity is taken.

This guy fingered you, so you are still a virgin.

Answer 5

It depends what you class the act of 'sex' as. Technically speaking, intercourse is what makes you lose your virginity - the penis needs to insert you. But some people in lesbian relationships for example, don't have intercourse, but yet wouldn't class themselves as virgins.

Generally speaking, losing your virginity does mean sexual intercourse - so yes, you are still a virgin, but it's really your call what label you want.

Answer 6

Yes you are still a virgin. Now you a virgin is classed as someone who has never had sexual intercourse with anyone. Fingering is not sex.

Answer 7

If you did not bleed then your hymen is intact and not broken. If you bled then you are no longer a virgin, physically speaking. You really should not let him do that to you, he could have all kind of dirt on that finger...ew

Answer 8

Yes, you are still a virgin as long as you didnt bleed.

Answer 9

yes u are dont' u read these other peoles questions i have seen a lot of people ask that and unless his dick goes in u u will still b a virgin.

Answer 10

!Yes! U still a virgin until u get some dick in yo life! Holla back!!! Ya girl, Miss *Princess* $Diva$ !Jade!

Answer 11

yes ,, look talk 2 any adult female u can trust ,,, i think u need 2 know few more things 4 the future