Hello my best mate is only 13 and is having sex with an 18 yr old and had a pregnancy scare at 12 what should i do i want to let her know that she is being stupid but i dont want to hurt her do you have any ideas if you do please answer my question.......!!!!!!?
2006-06-22 07:12:36 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Sounds to me like this guy is using her for sex tell her that,ask her why she thinks an 18 year old would love or want a 13 year old,she may get mad at u but she'll thank u some day,u sound like a great friend keep warning her and tell the police if she doesn't stop or her parents and the guy will get arrested he soo using her!poor friend!try finding her someone her age.good luck
2006-06-22 07:16:06 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Mariah™ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well have the same situation going on in my family and you can try telling her how you feel but if he has her convinced he is in love with her nothin you say will change what she is doing and it may force her to want to be with him more,my 14 yr old sister went as far as getting pregnant and hidding it till she was 6 months now she has a 1 yr old angel and is 7 months pregnant with her second child her life is at a dead hault and he is still enjoyin his...She is just a virgin he conquered and she will be nothing more to him if she ends up prenant he will be on the first thing smokin, If your advice does not come as a welcome thing then all you can do is be a friend and when things go bad be there to comfort her and love her....When she request your advice about him and their relationship explain to her you tried to help her and she refused your help so now all you can do is be her friend and stand beside her when she needs someone.....Good Luck hun and I truely hope and pray your friend wakes up before it is to late like my sister..
2006-06-22 15:20:15 · answer #2 · answered by shell b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just tell her that she doesn't need to be ahving sex so young! it is way better when you get older so she should wait. having a kid so young is no picnic and it may ruin her underdevolped body plus there is a risk she may have some serious complications and not be able to carry a baby you body is not ready at 131 I have a aunt who had to have her uterus removed when she had my cousin at 13 and was never able to have any more kids like she had wanted too so bad. it si too risky tell he she is better than that! TELL HER MOM! or tell your mom to tell her mom
2006-06-22 14:18:19 · answer #3 · answered by blue_eyed_woman_23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you were her friend you'll do the right thing and not be scary, tell your friend what you think, don't let her know your going to tell her mother cause all that will do is just mess your friendship up with her.If her mom don't care talk to someone else to talk to your friend.
2006-06-22 14:18:56 · answer #4 · answered by d34b4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she'll get hurt...but she'll be safe..talk with a counselor or her parent..you might loose her..but she is being raped..and you cant let your friend be raped...that man is a child molester..and she has issues..she need help..help her..but talk to her first tell her she's being molested and raped and tell the guy he can go to jail for a long time so leave her alone..
2006-06-22 14:48:46 · answer #5 · answered by Black 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look I'm sorry to say you can't change what has already happened but, if all that sex has resulted in changing your likfe, his GF's life, or his health than you have to talk to him otherwise.
2006-06-22 17:45:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her get pregnant. If she doesn't learn a lesson after ruining her life she's to stupid to ever learn!
2006-06-23 01:27:51 · answer #7 · answered by notsopresident 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
!DONT tell her parents! Telling her parents is the worse thing u can do. Doont worry bout hurtin her feeling. Just tell her like it is, what she is bein like, & how u feel. Holla back!!! Ya girl, Miss *Princess* $Diva$ !Jade!
2006-06-22 16:29:39 · answer #8 · answered by sexy_lilmama_always 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to stay come when u talk to her and don't sound to upset or mad or ne thing and tell her how serious it could get and what could happen if she doesn't watch out.i wish u luck
2006-06-22 14:21:35 · answer #9 · answered by Aliesha B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her thats scarry and she could have a baby and at 12 shes too young and could die, lil bodies cant handle such things
2006-06-22 14:19:00 · answer #10 · answered by Victoria 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋