2006-06-22 07:10:51 · 14 answers · asked by Ashley T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I have lost a BF that I really loved. At first, it was really, really hard. I cried a lot and found myself visiting the places we used to hang out. When my "pity party" was over, I started dating again, and just kept busy.
2006-06-22 07:13:32 · answer #1 · answered by stephete 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best thing that heals a broken heart is time. Every day it hurts just a little less.
One thing I've done is take a box and put everything he ever gave me into that box. Then I threw the box in the dumpster. It was like a ritual that helped me to move on.
Then call a girlfriend and get together for ice cream. The best way to get over a guy is to sit down, have a really good cry, then dry your tears and surround yourself with friends.
2006-06-22 07:14:10 · answer #2 · answered by Tamborine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did the worst thing you could possibly do. I immediately fell into another relationship. I felt insecure and alone and needed to fill the void. At first it it worked and I was able to enjoy myself. But it only lasted for a short time. And I was always comparing my new boyfriend to my ex which was unfair and immature. What I needed to do was take time to grieve the loss of my last relationship and search for constructive ways to fill my time. I needed to realize it was ok to feel hurt and mourn the loss of my relationship. However painful it may be to end a relationship, it's a learning experience. The only thing I can recommend is reaching out to a close friend or family member, or seek therapy if you find yourself feeling depressed. We tend to get lost in our relationships and forget who we are and what is important to us. Once you feel good about yourself you will attract the right people. Try and be optimistic and look at your breakup as an opportunity to grow as a person, meet new people and share new experiences. I'm positive that you will find the right person along the way. People are attracted to men/women that are secure and have their personal lives in order. Just be patient and become involved in activities that make you happy.
2006-06-22 07:30:19 · answer #3 · answered by Maharini 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey I did not lose a boyfriend but I lost my husband of twenty years. It takes times and a lot of determination. each day the hurts get better. if it was true love. you will always have a place in your heart for that person but the pain will get better I have lived through it. Good Luck It will help if you spend time with your friends to
2006-06-22 07:16:16 · answer #4 · answered by liza 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had to make myself go out and have fun. I went out with my single girlfriends and we would just have a good old time. Just try to get your mind off of him and if you have really good friends that should help. It takes along time that boy will always be in your heart no matter what but that's a good thing you don't want to forget about all the good times but also think about all the good times to come and all the other experiences your going to go through. Life is to short to dwell on one person for to long. Get out there sweetheat and have a good time but becareful.
2006-06-22 07:17:26 · answer #5 · answered by just a girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It definetly takes time, but as each day goes by it really does get easier. You probably can't see that now with all the pain but it will happen. Also going out and flirting with other people and having a good time with all my friends always made me feel better :-)
2006-06-22 07:13:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get involved in alot of activities that involve other singles, you'll be surprised how soon you recover when you're out and about and much more importantly making yourself available for the right person. Take your time though and give yourself sometime to enjoy being single.
2006-06-22 07:29:51 · answer #7 · answered by lcsotter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dated someone else and was competely over him in about 2 months. All these years later and for the life of me I can't remember his last name. It was Martian or something like that. Oh well, whatever.
2006-06-22 07:17:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well my dad wont let me have a boyfriend. Well anyways I no this girl bamed Jennifer she is my moms friends daughter and she was like so smart she was a straight A studet. And she hung herself in ehr basement. Dont do that tho. My advice is to go out there find someone else. there can always be someone better out there. someone more you and someone who treats you more of how you want to be treated. so all my advice is dont do something stupid to get over it ! PLEASE!!!!!!!!!! Just look for another guy. u no.
2006-06-22 07:14:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did.. he died in a car accident. It took me 2 years to get over it. And I swear I cried every night. Then one day the pain was just gone.
2006-06-22 07:18:35 · answer #10 · answered by angelpockets 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋