like when should i start
2006-06-22 06:46:50 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
when you get married. there is no reason to start as a teenager. save yourself and give it all to the person who will mean the most...your husband.
2006-06-22 06:49:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no age set for when you should have sex. The honest to God's truth is when you are old enough to handle the responsibility of being a parent of dealing with a STD. Some people wait until marriage, some people wait until they are truely in love. Sex is not something you just do for the sake of entertainment. While society has made it socially acceptable to have sex with who ever when ever, the true answer lies within yourself. Never start having sex just because. It will desensitize you to the reality of what sex is. Sex is supposed to be between two people who love each other and is an expression of their undying love for each other. But now it is has turned into something you do whether attracted or not, sober or not. No matter how old you are when you start having sex, it all hinders on how responsible you are. Dont just have sex to settle a curiosity because you will never find the true answer. If you are not ready dont have sex, bottom line. If you are not old enough, mature enough, financially capbable of raising a child, keep your legs closed. Sex should be something you share with someone you love and adore and can not live with out.
So, dont worry about when is a good time, you will feel it in your heart. You dont want to lose your virginity to some loser who you wont remember in 10 years. You want it to be special and meaningful and something you will cherish the rest of your life. Preferably to the person you marry.
2006-06-22 13:57:47 · answer #2 · answered by southrntrnzplnt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at age 16
2006-06-22 14:44:58 · answer #3 · answered by ericsgurl010 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how about when you are turly ready to accpet the consequences and risks from it. when you are ready to become a mom or be responsible even to be able to discuss the issue of getting a std with others and not be all shy and pissy about it. and when you can treat sex as a mature person then it's time. personaly i would have rather waited till i was married i was not ready for my kids by any means. but now days the younger children feel so much pressure to just rush and have sex without the protection and thinking about the consequences. reasearch all that can happen. think about how you will feel afterwords. are you really mature enough to handle children and put another human being over yourself. can you honestly say that you will be ok with having to get diapers and supplys over getting that new dress for the prom. are you willing to devote your every waking and sleeping moment to a helpless person. if not then you must really think that if you are truly ready and you believe that your body can handle the changes that come with sex how about birth control. are you gonna be mature enough to discuss it and follow through with it. and what if you do go on birth control are you going to be able to tell the person you are with when your hot and heavy to stop put on a condom? what if you get an std how are you gonna handle it? some are cureable some aren't. are you really ready to be willing to damage the rest of your health and life over a one time with a guy or girl. these are the things you need to think of before having sex if you can honestly answer all these questions resonably and with much thought then you know that you are either ready for sex or not.
2006-06-22 13:59:45 · answer #4 · answered by short.lil_momma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When u have a job and find a person that has a job so if u get prnant u can support the baby.Try to wait till u find someone who respects and truly loves u for who u are not for what your not and just to get in your pants.normaly the cute ones r the ones to watch out for the less actractive ones have great hearts!good luck gurl
2006-06-22 14:11:00 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Mariah™ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your body and it's really up to you when you wanna have sex but the way God wanted it to be is that everyone should have sex when they get married. I think it is your choice so good luck with making your decision
2006-06-22 13:51:31 · answer #6 · answered by PrincessNene 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either in College or when you get married, Basically after you hit 20
2006-06-22 13:50:01 · answer #7 · answered by ghettoplatano2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AFTER U GET MARRIED please i mean for one thing u will feel so good u waited and didn't waste it on some boy who will most likely be ur ex sooner or later so just wait untill ur for sure u will b with him the rest of ur life.
2006-06-22 13:57:20 · answer #8 · answered by Aliesha B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when our reproductive systems activated, we are physically ready to have sex ( only Sex - Not giving birth )
But main thing is mentally we have to mature.. This mental maturity varies from people to people..
Untill you get.. you got to wait for sure...
- Jin
2006-06-22 13:53:13 · answer #9 · answered by Jin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
16. After 16 I don't believe a girl who says she hasn't. Of course there are many who haven't but you gotta play the averages.
2006-06-22 13:54:04 · answer #10 · answered by Thirst Quencher 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋