2006-06-22 06:34:20 · 12 answers · asked by jewely 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
hey consider yourself lucky that this happened before the wedding instead of after!! don't mourn the loss of a wedding, its just a party, have yourself a party and make a big cake for it anyway...then be grateful that you don't have to put up with the LIFE after the wedding because it was bound to be miserable if you couldn't even get to it before you got fed up with his crap! and good for you, lots of people are so fixated on having a wedding that they fail to consider the life that comes after it!
2006-06-22 07:05:32 · answer #1 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Before I was married I changed my mind a dozen time - no lie! Then after I was married within the first year I bought three divorce packets but we never divorced and now I wouldn't change a thing, it is scarry and a major life change - it is hard to follow your heart / gut feeling when you have just as many of both feelings going on inside as the other but one thing is for sure there will be hard times and arguments - how strong is the love or relating that you share? Is it unconditional? Hope so!
2006-06-22 13:48:09 · answer #2 · answered by sophia_of_light 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have not let your emotions build up and spoken to him about your concerns when you were calm. Screaming matches always end in disaster. Think about the pros and cons of the relationship before making any life altering decisions.
2006-06-22 13:56:06 · answer #3 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better to find this out before marrying him than afterwards. Who needs someone like that in their life?
2006-06-22 13:38:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
best to find that out now, rather than after the wedding, count your lucky stars
2006-06-23 18:10:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If one shouting match ended it dear...then you would have never made it through the wedding planning stage.
2006-06-22 13:42:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is full of himself he will eventually treat you like crap because of it so you may be better off without him any way!
2006-06-22 13:38:21 · answer #7 · answered by fuzzyfatrabbit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better a broken engagment then a couple of kids and a divorce.
2006-06-22 13:48:21 · answer #8 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alot of men are like that. Sometimes you have to bring them down to reality and deflate their big heads.
2006-06-22 13:42:55 · answer #9 · answered by meggiek97 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best to find out now rather than later. Follow your heart! Don't do it if you don't want to.
2006-06-22 14:01:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋