Women help with an insecurity please?

Question

i have always wondered...does hair for men make a difference?
Does hair loss...little or a lot make a difference to how women feel about a man? Maybe just an initial attraction thing or maybe not even then. Or do women really look underneath it all as they want us men to believe? maybe it's a confindence thing and women see past it all together.

and i have been stressing over some minor thinning/loss. wow. i never really thought about the fact that my own insecurities are ruining my self-esteem so badly.

so now i realize i do have a confidence problem...well at least it's not my hair...lol.

i can't be alone...i guess that's why there are so many products out there for hairloss...hope this helps others too.

i am feeling SOOO much better regarding this. i had made it into a HUGE issue.

Answer 1

my boyfriend will be bald soon and it doesn't bother me....I've never heard of anyone having a problem w/ someone because of baldness....if you are self-conciuos about it just shave all your hair off.....alot of guys do that and look really great....my boyfriend's gonna shave his off.....

Answer 2

I heard a saying that went along this line: It takes some living, to be good at giving. Most women who have matured...do look for what a man has to offer that's from within. Confidence is truly a great quality to have! The rarety i've come across, are men who want a fulfilling life with a partner to share and experience life together cherishing that joy brought into the relationship, and respecting it wholly with such loyalty that each one holds pride at such a high standard their actions reflect that, meaning either one will do absolutely nothing through acts of selfishness that will bring tarnish or shame to their relationship, while respecting each other's individuality. For those who have that, in a relationship anywhere through-out our world, is truely rich indeed! I don't know if that helps out any, but don't give up looking, for that special someone...you'll find each other, if both hearts are in the right place! Have a great day!

Answer 3

Sometimes, it depends how much hair your lossing. If you are older its not that big of a factor because we realize that when you get older your hair does fall out, but if you are young like under 30 or 35 it looks odd. Especially if you are the kind of bald where youre bald in the middle and only have hair on the sides.......i hate that.

Answer 4

Some women might be attracted to the hair style you have - To me it makes no difference and what is inside is more important then any hair style. Smell counts - Smell good always! Just as much as you are looking for someone out there, there is someone out there looking for someone like you just as much. You just have to know what you want first don't keep changing our mind. Ask your creator / higher power to assist you in finding the right person for you.

Answer 5

Great question and it TOTALLY DEPENDS ON THE WOMAN.

Every person, male and female, has what's called CORE VALUES. As we all know, some run deep and others are totally shallow.

If a woman has sensible core values such as spirituality, determination, empathy, caring, giving, thoughtful, loyal, dedicated, etc... hair is very low on the radar!!

If she (and he) is totally shallow and was raised with little values then all she's gonna care about is money, status, clothes, appearance, social status, and all that superficial crap. Stear clear from those types as often as possible. They are toxic to the spirit of life.

Answer 6

I am sure that is not the only redeeming quality that you have. Just smile and be yourself and forget the hair. I know some that have a full head of hair but are complete jerks. I would take a bald gentleman any day.

Answer 7

If your a cool guy, I don't think it matters. It's pretty cool for a guy to have a shaved head these days. I don't think hair matters much only the style where he try to cover the bald spot up with a long peice of hair from the side of his head, that look silly.

Answer 8

It all depends on the woman. If she is true at heart, she will look underneath it all and see the true person that lies beneath. If she can't and your "hair or no hair" situation gets in the way, she was truely never meant for you at all. So, ask if she minds if you have no hair, and then you will find a woman with a true heart!

Answer 9

Dude !

Guys are generally more superficial about their partners.
Wanting them to be this and that and look like this....
But love will overlook that after a while.... but yes with guys it's generally something that attractions them first, normally the way they look.

But I found generally with women that are good picks is that if you make them laugh and you treat them like a princess... They won't care what you look like most of the time.
But of course don't look like a slob.... groom ones self

Answer 10

It's more about confidence. I always see women with ugly friggin' dudes. It amazes me at times because I'm a pretty good looking guy who works out and I see girls that I would be nervous to approach going out with fat, pasty white, below average looking men. Could be money also.

I think men tend to be pickier.

Answer 11

I could care less if a man has hair or not. I don't want to get to know his hair, I want to get to know him as a person. And they way some people don't even take care of their hair is shameful and they should just shave it all off!