I say no because I'm only 15 and not ready and he's 16 and he is I just need ya'll opinion!
2006-06-22 06:25:56 · 51 answers · asked by Monica 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hey...Honey while the time may be right for him...I don't think it is right for you...At your age you mau not be able to deal with the responsibilities and pressures of sex...If he continues to pressure you drop him like a hot potato...take care and best of luck.
2006-06-22 06:30:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should wait a long time, like until you are 18. I am not an old fart, i am 25, but i feel like kids are having sex to young. Sex is special and if you start to young it looses its flair. If you are 15 years old you are not in a relationship! You will have many other boyfriends and if you give it up now, it will not be special for the person you really care about. Trust me, i know, i lost my virginity at 16 and have had so many problems with my self esteem. Before i got married, i only felt loved if a guy wanted to have sex with me and that is very unhealthy. It breaks my heart to know that i just did it just to do it and i did not wait until i was mature enough to handle it. It is major, it may not feel that way now, but you will understand when you are an adult.
2006-06-22 06:34:11 · answer #2 · answered by micah z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
H e e e e e e e e e llllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll nO!...dont do it. You guys are too young. DOnt set yourself up girl, he is just trying to get some and not just by you, plenty of other girls. So slow your role and let him find someone else that he can just hit, and then run away from afterwards. Don't let him pressure you, you are worth more then that, besides you will meet plenty of other guys. I would say guys at this age, they are just in it for the you know what. THats all they care about. So you tell him boldy that you are not ready and you are not about that right now. If he cant except that, then hes not worth your time.
2006-06-22 06:30:49 · answer #3 · answered by Priss18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is for grown ups...that's why you can't go to a porn shops until you're 21. Duh.. Unless your Boyfriend is ready to take on ALL the responsibilities of being an Adult...(full time job, buy a home, do the house work, mow the lawn, buy the groceries, do the laundry, pay all his own bills, and be ready to raise a child) He should just stick to being a kid. Why on earth does the youth today think it's so great to be a grown up? The responsibility's are endless and the stress turns our hair gray, and put wrinkles on our face...Just be a kid.
2006-06-22 06:36:44 · answer #4 · answered by mslorikoch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no! Three weeks and a few days haven't even given you time to really get to know each other. You are still both putting on false fronts to impress each other.
Sex will do nothing for the relationship except to complicate it! You will take it as something significantly different than he will. After that everything else will be extra difficult to fiqure out!
2006-06-22 06:29:30 · answer #5 · answered by RunningUte 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! For one you are not old enough and please wait until you are with someone you love. If he is 16 he is too young and you will probably be the one to get hurt. I know he will probably tell you that if you love him you will do this but you tell him if he loves you he will wait. Also think of the chance of you getting pregnant and maybe him telling all the guys at school he may not but if that gets around then all the guys will like you for just a one thing and then they will be done. So please after only knowing someone for 3 or 4 days you don't love them honey please wait and see where it goes you are way to young for such a serious thing.
2006-06-22 06:38:09 · answer #6 · answered by T B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your both two young. What is wrong with you? You know ages 15 and 16 are way too young. Both of you are still babies. Grow up first. It is a very big responsibility to lay down with another person. I am not trying to be cruel to you. I am just trying to give you a reality check. Your too young. Tell your boyfriend to wait. Do you love each other? Even if you do your still way too young.
2006-06-22 06:31:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I think that you should stick to high school! You are too young! When I was your age, yes I had boyfriend but I was not thinking of having sex with them. Things have changed. You will probably be one of the girls who gets pregnants and then have to concentrate on a kid and school work. I think that you should first concentrate on graduating from high school. And then afterwards then do what you want by then you will be 18 and an adult.
2006-06-22 06:43:01 · answer #8 · answered by tiffsag02 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not! Premarital sex can only lead to trouble, especially at your age. Something to keep in mind: You can only give away your virginity once, (assuming you are still a virgin) and you should give it to the right person. It is something special that you should guard with all that you have. I feel the same way even if you are not a virgin. You are much too young anyway.
2006-06-22 06:36:21 · answer #9 · answered by mel s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right now you are too young to even be thinking about sex you do not want to lose your virginity thats if you're still a virgin to your 16 yr old boyfriend right now because once he does he is going to be moving right along to some other girl so please take that this into consideration before you make any drastic choice
2006-06-22 06:31:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. Not a good idea. A relationship is more than just good feelings and every time you become personal you give part of yourself to the other person. They will have that part of you for the rest of your life. You can't take it back even if it doesn't work out.
2006-06-22 06:30:32 · answer #11 · answered by Rev Mel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋