2006-06-22 06:23:54 · 15 answers · asked by Fancy Pants 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I just lost my father 6 months ago. It was very unexpected.. We had our ups and downs through the yrs, but reconciled abouth 5 months before he passed. i NEver got the chance to say good-bye. But I know he watches over me, and my son. And ppl probably think I'm crazy for saying this: but i talk to him every night before I go to sleep. Can't say that I know for sure he hears me, but I think he does. I'm not real religious, but I believe i'll see him again someday. He's only gone from this earth, not my heart. So I try to remember the good times we had (though few), funny things he'd say or do. Or the quality time he spent with me when he could. And even though I miss him, my memories always have him near to me.
2006-06-22 06:41:37 · answer #1 · answered by leslie 2 · 7⤊ 0⤋
yes, and it hurts very much..how ever in my case i havent talked to that person for a while so when i lost them there was a lot of regret! i wish i had the chance 2 say goodbye n a chance 2 say how i really felt...its been a lil over a year now and i still think of how everything happened so fast..sometimes its still hard to cope wit but as time goes on the healing process begins. life is short! 2morrow isnt promised 2day so live life to the fullest n b thankful that u have lived another day.
2006-06-22 06:30:51 · answer #2 · answered by madly in love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i lost my grandmother when I was starting my first year of college. She die the summer of 1977 and I never got the chance to tell her goodbye and I love her.
At the time she was in the hospital dying from cancer and my mother decide not to honor her last wish to see me.
2006-06-22 08:05:47 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Twice both were grandma's the first instance i actually had the chance and never took it lied in fact to get out of goin to see her one weekend and week and half later she was gone second time was while i was training at Fort Sam my grandmother passed on in her sleep never got to say bye to wither of them its had thing to get over. Best thing I did though was hea how happy my grandma was when she found out i was going to be a father unfortanatly she never got to see her grandson. Yeah it suck to lose someone you never get to say goodbye too
2006-06-22 06:37:19 · answer #4 · answered by millitary007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, just a couple of weeks ago my grandmother passed away and I didn't get a chance to say goodbye.
I wrote her a letter to say all the things I didn't get to say and then mailed it with the address just saying: To: Mom-mom.
It made me feel better and I'm sure she was watching over my shoulder as I wrote it. She's in heaven reading it right now.
2006-06-22 06:27:09 · answer #5 · answered by leannainpa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I lost my older brother an i never got the chance to say goodbye an the devastating thing was i watch him die right in front of my face an i couldn't do nothing about it
2006-06-22 06:27:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have lost someone dear to me. I always make sure that my loved ones know how I feel, so that I have no regrets.
2006-06-22 06:26:48 · answer #7 · answered by Tina T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes...i lost someone. She was having premonitions, but the others tell her it will not happen... i was to see her the following week.. i did, i saw her the following week, during her wake.. i only managed to tell her a quiet good bye.
2006-06-22 06:29:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep - My Dad died a year ago. He went so fast that no one was able to say "goodbye". Luckily, I saw him on Father's Day - so I had seen him a few days earlier..
Hang in there - it's not a fun thing to deal with.
2006-06-22 06:28:07 · answer #9 · answered by tequila_girl98 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, my mom. I have regretted it the whole 6 years she has been gone. I know she loved me, but I didn't get the chance to tell her I loved her.
2006-06-22 06:49:53 · answer #10 · answered by honey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋