i,ve known this guy for almost 3 years basically since day one he got very attached to me he also has very low self esteem.he has always told me he loves me in fact he says it constantly.we,ve been through a few ups and downs but always manage to work things out,last year he and i had a heated discussion then we stopped talking for 4 months so i thought things were finally compleatly done an d i was moving on.then out of the blue he calls me telling me he tried to move on without me and cant he never stopped loving me and that he wants to be with me no matter what he seemed sincere so we started talking again.now he has dissapeared and i have no clue whats going on the last time we spoke we had a great conversation and everything went well and he repeadely told me he would call me the next day,thats why im extremely confused as to why he has done this or why he would even come back around in the first place just to do this? can anybody help me understand this cuz im confused?
2006-06-22 05:57:49 · 5 answers · asked by jelisa3120 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
MAYBE SOMETHING HAPPENED TO HIM TRY TO FIND OUT WHY HE'S DOING THAT.
2006-06-22 06:56:20 · answer #1 · answered by pOOhPhAT 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I could be totally wrong but he might be one of those guys who wants to go around with other girls but doesnt want you with other guys. There was this guy i like for so long and when we finally started to date it was great, then one day he ended it. we werent having problems are anything. but whenever i would start to move on then we would come back or call and i would always go back. then he would end it all over again. finally i met my current bf and he called again, but I told him no more, that he wasn't treating me right. after that we stopped talking and that was it. now i have been with my bf for 3 years and couldnt be happier.
2006-06-22 13:03:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Id give him a month of rejection before he becomes a stalker
or maybe he wants something of yours (like maybe ur rich and he realized how much life was easy when he was with you)
or sex was great (that might not be age appropriate)
or maybe he just plain loves you
2006-06-22 13:02:00 · answer #3 · answered by Tasteslikekittylitter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've heard of things like this happening and have had it happen before. He is obviously confused and it is no fault of your own. Move on and, if he shows up again, run screaming!
2006-06-22 13:05:59 · answer #4 · answered by rockmom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love him,call him, no other way around, maybe if he disappereard, call the police
2006-06-22 13:01:33 · answer #5 · answered by danscoob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋