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i love you..... and calling every night .. the calling two nights and three no.... and then 1 night a week.... and now sometimes.. but about what he says he realy doesn't have time to call since he's in the army.
ok and then he told me that he was my cousin's bf then my other cousin's bf. and now i am lost .. COMPLETLY LOST.... what should i do? what are his next moves? does he really love me as he says always? will he leave me?.... i don't know what to do anymore... uugh i heat myself when i don't know what to do like that? pleaaaaaaaaaaz give me a lot of advice. and thanx!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-06-22 05:50:47 · 18 answers · asked by tiger_eyes_lover 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
if hes in the army then your always going to be by the phone wondering. if its not a very long serious relationship maybe you should break it off. or youll just be stuck sitting there wondering what is going thruogh his mind and trying to push out whats going through yours. pull it together and take whats left of your sanity and find someone else to start over with. its giong to be hard but you can do anything.. your woman. good luck. :)
2006-06-22 05:58:25 · answer #1 · answered by clownluv♥ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, guys can be a real aggravation, can't they?
It's hard to understand all your details. Is this your boyfriend or your cousin's boyfriend?
Generally, if he's hopping back and forth between you and your cousins - that is a good indicator that he's not a faithful type of guy.
If he is in the army, that really could affect how often he can call so I wouldn't be as concerned about that fact as I would be concerned about how incosistent he is about whose boyfriend he is.
A long distance relationship is very very hard. It requires a great deal of commitment and trust. If you feel you have that with this person - then great. But if you don't - you will save yourself a lot of heartache in the long run if you simply be friends with this guy and look a little closer to home for love.
If a guy can't be clear with you about what his intentions are - then it is unlikely that his intentions are sincere.
2006-06-22 12:57:03 · answer #2 · answered by Tamborine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what you said, he doesn't sound like he's ready for a long term committment relationship. And if I understand you right about being two of your cousin's bf too! Not good. He's a player if I read you right. He's looking for a conquest and as soon as he gets it, he'll move on to the next. Sowing wild seeds.
Make yourself unavailable to him, get out, go places, do things with others. If he is seeing other people then I would lose him.
2006-06-22 12:58:28 · answer #3 · answered by midnightdealer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think he stills loves u. Ask him for the last time whether he loves u or not. You cannot understand what is in his mind. U even cannot say he is bad. Discuss with him. If he is not serious then leave him. U cannot trust a person who goes on flirting with every women. Think and decide.
Good luck, Take Care, Bye.
2006-06-22 12:57:42 · answer #4 · answered by Aniroll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, he does not love you. He is, very meanly, throwing around "I love you" without meaning it, which as you can tell, is playing with your emotions. I think you should tell him on his next phone call that you don't feel it will work and would appreciate him not contacting you any more. He is treating you like a toy, and lying to you. This is the last kind of guy you need in your life.
2006-06-22 12:53:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
slow down and take a deep breath...your saying that he told you he loved you but then he was your cousins boyfriend then your other cousins boyfriend...? This needs to end now, if he said he loved you, then went out with 2 of your cousins,he lied, maybe he lied about being in the army as well...think about it, do what your heart tells you to do, if you love him, ask him to tell the truth and ask him if he loves u back. Hope u the best of luck, god bless
2006-06-22 12:56:04 · answer #6 · answered by danscoob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I have to say Military relationships are very hard especially when there is distance between you guys. All you can do is be supportive of his career and show him that your are there for him.
2006-06-22 12:53:48 · answer #7 · answered by sweetdreamin96 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to move on, this guy has issues. You can find a guy that doesn't play games. Don't even talk to him anymore.
2006-06-22 12:59:53 · answer #8 · answered by SAChicky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a jerk. Leave him alone to play head games with some other woman.
2006-06-22 12:52:55 · answer #9 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People lie,sorry but this guy does not love you,forget him he is just useing you.Move on with your life,one day you will meet the right person.
2006-06-22 12:59:15 · answer #10 · answered by pappy john 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋