some arguement someone points out? is it a normal thing for certain guys? meaning, its just part of thier personality or is it of a cause that has happened to them in the past?
my bf has always been like that, and i thought for a period that maybe it was because when he was small we wast allowed to say what he wanted to say, but being with him for so long i found out that he never went through such an experience for that. i know he is not a dumb guy since he knows real well how to succeed in work and lifestyle, being wise ecc...but when it comes to talking in general, bringing up an interesting arguement, his only replys are like, 'oh wow,' 'interesting' but he never spills out what he says and kills me, because im the only one doing the talking.
ive actually talked to him about it and he's trying to better himself at giving feedback in general conversations, but he's still the same sometimes.
is it the matter of personality? is it normal? or is it for sure some other reason?
2006-06-22 05:48:17 · 3 answers · asked by sueet2b 4 in Health ➔ Men's Health
You are describing my significant other. He has the exact same personality as what has been written about Albert Einstein. You are spending effort and time trying to discover the WHY of your BF's behaviour. It does not matter WHY, it matters that he is who he is, no matter what the cause. You can accept him or not, but you cannot and should not try to change him.
I have had to learn to accept my sweetie's personality with humour. He sits quietly as I talk about interesting, wondrous, thrilling topics. He is quiet because he is not listening. He is thinking about skies, and birds, and worms.He never complains and he is wonderful at making money.
It is a normal, highly uncommon personality type with no strengths as a conversationalist. Good luck !
2006-06-22 06:04:11 · answer #1 · answered by SpongebobRoundpants 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's just his personality,it's not very common but that doesn't mean it's not normal.just be patient with him and try asking him questions and then follow up questions he can't answer with a yes or no.
2006-06-22 15:10:16 · answer #2 · answered by SarcasticAnomaly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, completely. They're all shy.
2006-06-22 12:51:36 · answer #3 · answered by Alexandra Rose 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋