would you be mad if? you finaly told a girl that you always liked her and then you invited her to come over your house and hang out with you and you asked her was she still a virgin and she said no and you were still a virgin woudnt that kinda hurt and make you feel sad because you uh know somebody already done took their virginity and had sex with the person that you always liked and wanted to lose your virginity with.
2006-06-22 05:36:22 · 22 answers · asked by mcghee.b@sbcglobal.net 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
well it looks like you waited way too long to ask her. and hey do ya love the person or a little piece of skin over her vaginal opening. duh, so she isn't a virgin. Is it really THAT big of a deal, if so...go find you a virgin.
2006-06-27 03:59:34 · answer #1 · answered by mysticalflyingsquirrel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really loved this girl for so long and you finally get to be with her you should accept her just the way she is and just because she's not a virgin doesn't make her worth any less than if she was everyone makes mistakes when their in love but if that is so important to you than you're the one who isn't worth it if she likes you too and you can't get over that you'll be hurting her but its better to be alone than with someone who will always make her feel less because she isn't a virgin. I think you should just get over it and accept her just like that if you say you really love her.
2006-06-22 06:58:31 · answer #2 · answered by Kandie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no .... it is up 2 that person what they do or dont do.... what if it was her first love that she did it with... it really isnt anything you can do to prevent her from doing it... but i know i would be hurt to , but they want to lose there virginity to somone else.. say there is a girl that really likes you .. and you already lost your virginity (to the girl that you said you wanted to loose your virginity to) and the new girl is sad cuz she wanted to loose her virginity to you... i know that is sorta wierd how i say it but ya just look at it from differnt angles ... hope it answers ur QUESTION .. :)
2006-06-22 05:47:18 · answer #3 · answered by ♥♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's something that you can not be mad at....of course you can hurt from it, but what she did with her life before the two of you started dating is something that you can not hold against her.....she gets to choose who she looses her virginity to just like you do.......its still something that can be treasured even though she's still not a version......don't be upset with her.
2006-06-22 05:42:09 · answer #4 · answered by 1981 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you can't let other peoples decisions cause you sadness. You will have a very dark life if you start that now. She could have lied also to look more mature in your eyes. I would start with dating...then move to sex any way.
2006-06-22 05:40:41 · answer #5 · answered by dom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it...it happens. Look at it this way...you can still lose your virginity to her
2006-06-22 06:07:12 · answer #6 · answered by mommy_2_liam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like this girl, wait. Mixing sex with friendship sucks! Sure, if you are dating you should be friends and sex sometimes goes along with that. But; if you are not dating - do not have sex with her yet.
2006-06-22 05:43:16 · answer #7 · answered by SweetD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me yeah becuase I want the person I love to be my first and only and me to be there first and only that's why i'm waiting 4 marriage,but man that would suck if that was what happened.
2006-06-22 06:23:27 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Mariah™ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You can't expect that every girl's saving it for you. Besides she may be able to teach you a thing or two, if and when the time comes.
2006-06-22 05:41:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it happens........
She isn't yours to own.......sure it would suck a bit but i'd get over it in a second. And don't get paranoid that you are a virgin and she isn't......it doesn't matter if she likes you back for real.
Chill dude, chill.
2006-06-22 05:39:51 · answer #10 · answered by Girl Goes Back To The Future 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋