you always hear of guys having extra marital affairs or "flings - but what about you married gals - do you seek out sex outside of the marriage or does it just "happen" by chance
2006-06-22 05:00:41 · 11 answers · asked by trickster_travels 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm sure a lot women seek it and justify it by saying that their husband isn't giving them attention. Have heard that one over and over. It might be true, but why not find out why it has happened, try to solve the problem first.
In some cases it "happens by chance". You meet someone, become friends and then it turns into more than just friends. I know that sounds like something out of a movie, but in some cases it is true. That works for both men and women.
Men have been sterotyped as the ones that would have an extra marital affair, more so than women. But today I think the numbers would be tied.
I do want to say that I do not condone either circumstances. I think before anyone has an extra marital affair, make sure your marriage is over and there is no room for reconciliation.
2006-06-22 05:14:23 · answer #1 · answered by allyp51 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I've never cheated on my husband, and I doubt I ever will. We aren't "perfect" all the time, but we have a pretty strong relationship and I can't imagine a circumstance that would cause me to risk losing the man I love.
I know both men and women who have cheated. I think it's just as likely for a woman as it is for a man, but the motivation to cheat is probably different.
2006-06-22 12:17:30 · answer #2 · answered by browneyedgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had and affair one week before I left my husband and I am in love with this man and found out that his divorce was never over and now 4 of us are hurting over it.
2006-06-22 12:08:40 · answer #3 · answered by Sandra M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all are humans so it does happen not by will, but otherwise, but most woman will be faithful in a marriage. The men are most likely to cheat.
2006-06-22 12:09:41 · answer #4 · answered by Resurrected 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends on how the boy looks like and we are more faithfull than boys cuz we can controll our homones and it only happens once in a while
2006-06-22 12:13:24 · answer #5 · answered by strawberrylicous555 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never cheated on my husband. have thought about it but not for sex, just looking for love and to have my emotional needs met. would never cheat for sex.
2006-06-22 12:07:38 · answer #6 · answered by toni h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wouldnt know...im not married...dont plan on being married...at least not now...having too much fun in college with them girls...yep im bi
2006-06-22 12:13:05 · answer #7 · answered by raven wants it... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i dont do it. its wrong. "do unto others as you would have done unto you" i would never want my husband to do that so i would never do it either. â¥
2006-06-22 12:09:31 · answer #8 · answered by BeAuTiFuL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes I just cant get enough:}
2006-06-22 12:08:52 · answer #9 · answered by Tanya P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i lvoe my hubby and i am happy with him.
2006-06-22 12:07:38 · answer #10 · answered by JAZY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋