37 WEEKS 1/2 PREGNANT, and Can't have SEX ?

Question

everytime me and my partner try to have sex, either me on top or him on top his penis doesnt insert my vagina, it hurts s o bad, it wont insert...whats going on , is there a position that can work or it doesnt work? help

Answer 1

there are position that work b/c your supoused to have sex when your pregnant

Answer 2

My husband and I gave up on the sex life at about 7 months, partly because it was a very hot summer 2 years ago, my belly and his belly weren't getting along anymore and also because it started hurting and being uncomfortable even in trying different places in the apt. We did try again to get labour going just before I was supposed to go in to be induced, my son was late and had squatters claims by then and wasn't about to come out without a fight. lol I would however suggest trying rear entry or Doggie style and either take your time on foreplay and enjoy yourself or go buy some KY or another brand of personal lube.

Good luck and be careful.

Answer 3

I'm 35 weeks now. At 33 weeks we where still having sex, but I started bleeding and my doctor said we can only hold hands. I don't know about you, but i have been more than whiling to now than ever. so this holding hands, has been a little bit harder for me than my husband. Try doggy style. That was most combatable. I personally like being on top and it worked just fine too. Also lying on your side and have him position himself behind you. Hope this helps.

Answer 4

I agree it usually works best to have him behind you, either laying down spooning or doggy style. But are u sure it's not cause u are dry? Try some lubrication your stuff may not be working like your used to cause of all the hormones going amuck.

Answer 5

The best position is you on your hands and knees and him behind you. It's the only place your belly isn't in the way. Plus it's a little easier for penetration. I hurt like heck while I was pregnant and couldn't have sex at all. I hope it's not the same for you. GOOD LUCK!!

Answer 6

Do you need some additional lubrication perhaps? Try doggie style (if you can handle that in your condition) or some other position to see if entry is easier that way. If you can't resolve this, speak to your doctor about it. S/He may have suggestions that could help ya out.

Answer 7

Doggy style? I usually don't get involved or even check on sexual questions cause I am old fashion and shy, but pregnacy is a cool thing. I got to watch while my son was born and that was way cool. But maybe if you try what I first typed that will work?

Answer 8

I am 34 weeks, and it hurts for me to have sex as well. You can try to use lubrication, water based, such as KY jelly. You can try different positions, the only way that works for me is in the shower, standing facing the wall with him behind me. Hope that helps.

Answer 9

having sex all the way through your pregnancy is great if you can enjoy it. i agree wit the others, doggystyle and lubrication. even if it brings on labor your full term so you shouldnt worry. it's good to keep opening up your vagina to make delivery better. and you should enjoy it while you can cuz after you have the baby you'll have to wait and it will be hard cuz you have a baby. congrats on your pregnancy i'm wishing you and smooth and beautiful delivery. i'm a total birth advocate so if you want ot email or im me you can

Answer 10

Ger, u got to relax. Try this position with u laying on your side and your hubby behind. Just imagine doggy style by lieing down, this relax your body and ahem... vagina too. Apply lotion if needed =)

Answer 11

i think that its good that u want to still resume a normal life and this is what i think is best lie on your back and hold feet up as he inserts his penis in he should slide right in from the side that way your feet are up he may be able to go deeper if pleased and its no stress on anyone