Would you do a 3some? FMF or MFM? Why or why not?
2006-06-22 04:29:21 · 22 answers · asked by u_wish1205 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
my husband and I have talked about how we would feel about that .. not that we would do it . if you do this you are asking for big trouble .. what if you did do it and you or your spouce likes being with the other person more , what if it got to the point that you were no longer involved in it they just were having fun between the two of them .. you can say we would not hold against each other , we would still be together , but I have seen this before in soem of out friends ,, it does not work .. if you love your hus/wife keep it between the both of you .
2006-06-22 04:36:45 · answer #1 · answered by blueflowerscs 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No b/c marriage is a sacred vow keeping yourself only for your mate. If a threesome was wanted it should have been done in the single stages, how could you do a threesome and look at your mate the same no matter how it went and how could you respect the other! That's cheating whether it was aggreed upon or not it's a violation of the vows that were taken in front of GOD!
2006-06-22 04:35:37 · answer #2 · answered by Danette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dropout of the porn school of marriage for idiots savant, step away smartly and no one will get hurt.
Words like "forsaking all others" contained in the marriage vow still matter.
Couples who swing are really married, they belong in a category called "married singles."
3somes always end badly not to mention the introduction of STDs and feelings of inadequacy.
2006-06-22 04:44:06 · answer #3 · answered by obiwanshu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude if i were you ill try not to get involved, keep your fantasies to yourself. Even if your other half says yes. Some issue is gonna come up as time goes by. ie (jealousy) it could be a week, a month, a year. Most people are not open enough to deal with that.
2006-06-22 05:04:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is sacred and allowing anyone else to enter into the intimate part of the married life is a violation of that sacred trust.
2006-06-22 04:45:28 · answer #5 · answered by Veritatum17 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, because it is against my ethics and wedding vows. To me it is cheating and the marriage is no longer monogamous. If one want s to try it then divorce first before engaging in a threesome.
2006-06-22 04:37:26 · answer #6 · answered by Trina V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is just stupid. why did you get married in the first place with THAT ONE PERSON? i say NOOOOOO. i would never do something like that. i married my husband becus he is the only one i want to be with for the rest of my life. i dont need to add soemone into our relationship for couple minutes of being dirty. thats not a smart thing to do. i say No no NO.
2006-06-22 04:40:03 · answer #7 · answered by All4Christ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, babe....do that **** before you get married. Marriage is already too complicated to throw another body in there.
2006-06-22 04:55:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would I hope My old lady doesn't find out
2006-06-22 05:12:59 · answer #9 · answered by polockpete40 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! I am not sharing my personal intimate life with any one other than my Husband. That is so not cool.
2006-06-22 04:43:07 · answer #10 · answered by bemassey2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋