I'm 13 and when I was 12 I was almost raped. I had onther things bad happen to me like when I was 6 or 7 I was sexual abuised and this yr I was hassentent/stalked.Please help me how to cope with this! What should I do? Who should I see?
2006-06-22 04:26:22 · 32 answers · asked by JuiceBoxx 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Tell a responsible adult that you TRUST!! They can get you the help/counseling you need!! good luck...
2006-06-22 04:29:43 · answer #1 · answered by krazy_gal04 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U should c a psychiatrist. U really need 2 talk 2 a professional about this. These things tend 2 have long-term psychological effects on people.
2006-07-05 06:32:43 · answer #2 · answered by triniallstar_4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to hear that dear, u must take some elder man in ur home into confidence and don't be dejected, face the life and that stalker directly in his face and have confidence don't be afraid. Fear is the biggest enemy than the stalker. If that does not help, call the police...
2006-07-04 01:20:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the police and social services they will put u in a program hopefully and try to catch this person,mabey try moving away and changing your name and stuff.And the only other thing to do is try going to church and parying God can help with anything.Even if you've never been to church before,that always helps me.Good luck
2006-06-22 06:31:57 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Mariah™ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The real problem is how you're 13 and can't spell worth $hit! But yes, I am sorry about your incidents. Try seeing it as kind of flattery I guess. If people want to ugh-ugh you then, you must be gorgeous! Ok, ok, I'm not really helping, but I am sorry.
2006-06-22 04:40:12 · answer #5 · answered by MiSs MuRdEr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell a trusted adult and get some counseling. That is a terrible thing to have happen. Take a self defense class so you know what to do if it happens again.
2006-06-22 04:36:06 · answer #6 · answered by Brandie C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First I would speak with my parents about this--if you feel that you can not speak with your mother or father speak to the church pastor or your best friend's mother...the main thing is to let someone know what is happening with you-----It's ok to tell..do not be the silent victim..cope with what is happening with you...the first step is to realize it is not your fault and the second step to recovery is letting someone you know and trust..your teacher or quidance counselor will be able to help you if you feel you can trust no one else...
2006-07-05 18:29:32 · answer #7 · answered by destine4_69 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i gon be real wit cha there is really no way to cope wit it but let me tell u this i have gon there the smae thing so if u need a friend send me an email i can help the best i can
2006-06-22 04:47:42 · answer #8 · answered by domonique716 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really need to talk to the one person you trust thats older then you so they can help you out.its one of the only ways your going to be helped out...serriously i was being stalked last yr at my old school by some weirdo i told my aunt and she got me some good help...so tell someone you trust as hard as it may be.
2006-06-22 05:28:19 · answer #9 · answered by miss socca♥socca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing to do is to talk to someone you trust with your life...maybe seeing a counselor but i suggesta close friend or a loved one who really cares and isnt getting paid to listen to you. i've been there...it takes a lot to get thru it...i wish you the best of luck and hope things get better for you!
2006-07-01 17:40:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't make friends with people you don't know. like in here. telling people that you are 13, is not a good way to protect yourself. only talk to people that you know, like mom and dad, or teacher.
just curious,....why is your avatar name "bad girl"? are you trying to portay that image? that is not a good thing to do either. children like yourself should keep their innocense. do your parents know that you are asking strangers for help on a very serious matter like this?
2006-06-22 04:36:12 · answer #11 · answered by angela 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋