My gf has been asking to do anal sex but i don't think she really wants to i think she wants to do it.?

Question

Because all of her friends are doing it but she is afraid of doing it but wants to show all of her friends she can do it, what should i do?

Answer 1

i think thats disgusting...i say dont do it..yuck

Answer 2

Have you heard about rodeo sex? Your enter her anus from the doggy position, you hold on to her pig tails, then you tell her you've been sleeping with her sister...and hold on for the ride. Timing for scoring purposes begins when she fully grasps what you just said.

Ok, anal sex can be a perfectly enjoyable activity, butt you need to do a few things...1) Wear a condom. Seems hard to grasp why, butt it is relatively easy for a man to get a urinary tract infection after engaging in unprotected anal sex. Further it is very easy to pass any STD's to the receptive partner this way. Wrap the package. 2) If you go from anal to vaginal, be sure to wash your piece. 3) Use personal lubrication. 4) Before you start, have her bear down like she is having a bowel movement, then enter slowly a little and wait. Allow the sphincter to relax for a minute, then proceed. 5) Especially if this is her first time, do not penetrate deeply.

Now that's HOW to do it, what about SHOULD you do it? I guess I don't care for any activity to be done due to peer pressure. Its pretty stupid. You'll have more self respect if you just don't and say...Hey, its not my thing. You two might start slowly and try penetration with a finger. If that is enjoyable for her, then consider doing more. If not then don't. There is a point where you will need to live your live because it is what you want to do or not want to do. Why not make that time now?

Answer 3

She should not have anal sex only because her friends are... only if she wants it. That said anal sex can be very enjoyable for both (or all!) parties involved.

The REAL right way to do it:

Before attempting it with you, she should be comfortable with inserting 2 or 3 of her own fingers inside, if not a small toy. She should start with a huge amount of lube, and just one finger. She should be sexual aroused, perhaps rubbing herself to get in the mood. She should lube both around her ***, and her finger, and slowly try inserting it. Push the finger in just to the first knuckle, and wait until she relaxes around it, and then continue just a bit, and stop until she relaxes. When she can get the finger in there no problem (it can take as little as one session or up to a few) she can try pumping it a little bit. She should stop at any time it hurts. Using the same method, she can slowly add another finger, and then another. When she is comfortable with pumping 2 or 3 fingers herself, then you can be added to the equation. Warm her up by giving her some oral, a massage, or perhaps, if you are up to it, some rimming. Lube up your own finger and her ***, and gently slide it in. If she is uncomfortable at any time, stop. You should add one or two other fingers, until she is taking something around the the width of your cock. When you go for it, be sure to wear a condom (it constricts the penis slightly, and can make it more slippery, and therefore more comfortable for her), and use latex-safe lube. Lube up your cock and put some lube on your fingers and slide them into her, lubing her up inside too. I prefer doggy-style for anal penetration, so if she is comfortable with that, I reccomend that position. Gently ease into her, only an inch or so at a time, and ask her if she is comfortable all the time, and also ask for her permission to move further. If she tells you to stop, stop immediately. :)

And don't worry about the "poop" issue... if she does not have an enema beforehand, there is likely to be a small amount of "leftovers", but you are a manly man... and can deal ;)

Each time you have anal sex, be sure to go slow unless she tell you otherwise. The rectum is very sensitive and can be ruptured easily. Be careful and have fun!

Answer 4

I really don't know if I should be putting this out there. But if she is the one initiating the act you better take her up on it. She may have never done it before but obviously it seems to be exciting for her. It may hurt her and PROBABLY will in the beginning. But as long as you both relax it can be VERY pleasurable. That has become a part of a sexual routine for me...and it really never loses its appeal as long as it's right for BOTH of you. If that's something you want to do let her know and give her some credit. why would you think she was lying? there is a first time for EVERYTHING. Good luck!

Answer 5

Don't do it!!!! She shouldn't let her friends actions make her want 2 do something just 2 prove shes not a chicken or something. hope u havent made a mistake! u should know her better than the people u r asking so if u think she is just doing it bcuz her friends talk bout it and that makes her want 2 do it then dont do it!

Answer 6

U should tell her it's better 2 b an individual instead of part of the crowd. Don't b so willing 2 do something u don't want 2 do just cuz everybody is doing it. Tell her 2 stand out and that it's o.k. with u if she really doesn't want 2.

Answer 7

google the dangers of anal sex, study the findings together and then decide together. Personally I think the back door was made for one reason and sex isn't that reason. As a medical professional I realize it is growing more popular, but there are dangers do your homework.

Answer 8

Talk to her about what your thinking. Don't let her do something you feel she really doesn't want to do until you find out for sure if she really wants to do it. I mean if you do doit then it should be because you both really want try something new not because her friends are doing and she wants to prove a point. Also if don't talk to her about it wont what your thinking be constantly in the back of your mind and kill the mood?

Answer 9

It is called sodomy in the Bible, and a whol city was burned to the ground the story of Sodom and Gommorah, Lot and his family, plus its just like having sex with another dude, that is why the vagina is there, just stick to the regular, she should let her friends dictate her relationship any way

Answer 10

Today it could be peer pressure encouraged and endorsed anal sex, tommorrow it could be some other thing. And it could be worse. Your concern shows you care for her.Better make her understand that your relationship with her is more than satisfying peers.

Answer 11

JUST BECAUSE HER FRIENDS ARE HAVING ANAL SEX DOESN'T MEAN SHE HAS TO DO IT. IF SHE IS UNCERTAIN IF SHE WANTS TO DO IT ANALLY, SHE NEEDS TO STOP AND THINK IF SHE'S GOING TO FEEL COMFORTABLE DOING IT. IF SHE'S READY THAN GO FOR IT, IF SHE'S NOT READY DON'T FORCE HER TO DO IT.

PERSONALLY I HAVE TRIED ANAL SEX, I THOUGHT IT WAS VERY PAINFUL AND I WOULD NEVER DO IT AGAIN.