Girls in my school are always obsessing about their weight and the jerks at my school talk about how fat some of them are [they really arent that overweight] So my question is...
What do guys truly look for in a girlfriend?? I know some of them say what you want to hear, but i want the truth; no matter how painful.
2006-06-22 03:47:19 · 10 answers · asked by fight for love 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
It has been my experience that while guys find skinny women attractive, and will make comments to each other about them, most of it is bull. Attractive thin women can also be intimidating to guys because they may feel she's "out of their league". They may also feel jealousy because of all the attention she may attract from other men. It has been my experience that as far as a long term relatinship goes, we average or overweight women actually may fair better. I'm a girl next door type, just average, not bad looking (if I do say so myself), but not a knockout by anymeans. Yet I never have trouble dating or meeting guys because they don't perceive me as a threat, and so approach me more often.
My advice is just be yourself, no matter what your size. When you are confident about yourself it shows. Finding a partner isn't all about looks, it's about having a relationship that compliments each others strengths and supports their weaknesses.
2006-06-22 04:03:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most of them don't like skinny at all. I've heard guys saying that it's no fun to have sex with a bag of bones.
Plus a lot of guys are really intimidated by really hot girls. Yeah, they like looking at them, but they fear rejection. I was the hot gal and believe me, my more average girlfriends got a lot more dates!
That said, few like heavy girls. What has become average these days is often chubby.
If your belly is bubbling over your pants that's not flattering. Sometimes even girls with great figures where things that are unflattering and make them look fat when they aren't. Being a slave to the latest fashions is dumb.
Curves are sexy and skinny girls don't have them.
2006-06-22 10:58:42 · answer #2 · answered by Lori A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't like skinny girls. Seriously, I don't want to date a skeleton. I'd rather have a thick chick than a skinny girl. But if I could choose, I'd want an athletic girl. Give me a lady with some hard calves and abs. Some nice strong arms. Overall, though, I'll take personality before anything.
2006-06-22 17:52:43 · answer #3 · answered by holidayspice 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a guy, but I would guess that most guys like skinny girls, and there are also guys who say they like girls with a little meat on their bones...you know something to hold on to.....depends on the guy....
2006-06-22 10:56:14 · answer #4 · answered by MELISSA&ERIC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that it would hurt to hit a girl doggy style if she was skinny and have her bone one top of me when she ridden it. i love a women w/ a little meat on her i am a *** man. but the promble that women have is that they all want to be skinny like to actors and singers that they see on tv and for alot of women they just don't look hot to me
2006-06-24 12:04:25 · answer #5 · answered by you have ? i have a answer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most guys like skinny model looking girls but some of them like avrage girls
2006-06-22 10:52:37 · answer #6 · answered by ♥BitterSweet♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all depends on the guy... some hate skinny girls and some love them
2006-06-22 11:10:55 · answer #7 · answered by sunkissedlove<3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey guys want a gil with looks, eyes and curves
2006-06-22 10:52:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no we dont like skinney girls more
2006-06-22 15:41:12 · answer #9 · answered by hawkeye32 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girlz r always preferrd..............................100%
2006-06-22 11:00:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋