ok, so i can get myself off with my rabbit fine and dandy........but wen it comes to my boyf, he does everything right, but i cant let go....any tips??
2006-06-22 03:42:56 · 8 answers · asked by miss_minxe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You need to ditch that vibrator addiction! Whilst vibrators are temptingly easy to use, you are going to have to resist temptation if you want to learn how to orgasm with a partner. I'm sorry to tell you this but vibrators don't simulate the feelings that a partner can recreate with his hands, tongue or penis. They may also accustom you to overly strong sensations on your genitals leaving you numb when your partner tries to bring you off. they are ok for occassional use but not for habitual use.
You are going to need to learn to masturbate with your fingers or your hand. This may take some time as you are so used to your vibrator. Be patient, it's worth it, it may take a few weeks of practise.
Then you need to masturbate in front of your boyfriend. This will teach him where, how and when you like to be touched. After a few more weeks of (arduous, I'm sure lol) practise you will be coming with your boyfriend directing the action.
2006-06-22 03:53:29 · answer #1 · answered by Fluorescent 4 · 11⤊ 1⤋
You're thinking about it too much. Lay back and think of England (or whatever country you are from)
Has he tried using the rabbit, why don't you both use the rabbit till he is capable to using it by himself.
Turn the lights off too
2006-06-22 03:46:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ditch the boy and find a man. No some chicks just can't Kinda weird. bring the rabbit in if he still can't get it done. Guys like helping with stuff like that he will probably like watching and helping you use it,
2006-06-22 03:47:30 · answer #3 · answered by stiffmissionary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not use the rabbit together? Show him how you come. Open your legs wide and show him how to touch your clit, your g-spot and all of your vulva. Masturbate together. Practice foreplay for at least 30 minutes before intercourse.
2006-06-22 03:47:46 · answer #4 · answered by Big Momma Carnivore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to relax and let your inner ambitons go.on your own your relaxed to get your self off as u say.try your rabbit while hes with you or let him use the rabbit on you see how u go
2006-06-22 03:48:25 · answer #5 · answered by irlamboyo45 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your rabbit?! So wrong!
2006-06-22 03:47:34 · answer #6 · answered by Deerrunner 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take loads of time, make sure nobody else will be around, candles, music, have a laugh, relax
2006-06-22 03:46:21 · answer #7 · answered by happyfacedani 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wha??
2006-06-22 03:49:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋